I've had a 'yo-yo' relationship (as I call it). they don't work. all you doing is grasping at straws in the hope something will change. it won't. all you're doing is setting yourself up for more pain and heart ache. walk away before it consumes you.

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Thankyou all for the advice x

ehmmm i fink in a relationship u shd always creat a room for amendments and help minimise each other's weakness and maximise each other's strenght but if its becoming rampant behaviour of ur spouse then u've got to test his/her trust in u.

wen i say test a trust i mean.....oh ok i've got a second thought abt this, i'll message u that later cos i've being through this and wen i tried testing a trust, i felt safer, secured and i was right afr'al.

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it didnt......and i did......with both of the players

ahhhhh as if people need to be that rotten to themselves. but some alas have no respect for themselves let alone anyone else

n meant i didnt get hurt....and i did give them a second chance lol. think if your open to players on a real level.....instead of their level.....the damage is non-existent,,,,,on a score of 1 to 10 of arrow in the heart lol

guys who really want to share themselves with you in an honest way, will. and not play games of any kind to try to keep u interested.

players dont have anything more than games to keep someone interested.....coz they are just so boring on every other level. that is a fact

and my wisdom on the yoyo you may yourselves encounter at some point.....may just help you too see them for what they are.......i did before they started their games.......interested only in what they were upto and wanting to play.....not actually interested in ....them.