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I've met this girl recently and have started to like her. She came out of a 4 year relationship a few months ago. We were getting along quite well but now she hardly chats. I understand that she isn't ready for a relationship. But should I consider this as a sign that there's no chance for me? I really like her and I will wait for her if that's what she wants. She always tells me that I'm sweet and she's never met a guy like me before but I feel that I don't have a chance. Should I just give up on her? |
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@lo0pyl0z | 21 November 13 |
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Ask her? 4 years is a pretty long time and although she 'likes' you she may have become less chatty and backed off abit because she got cold feet, She may be missing the idea of being in a relationship and the feeling of someone being there because she's feeling lonely but prehaps she's realised she's not ready for another full on relationship yet.. If it's time she wants then you have to decide if you want to give her that time, or know when to draw the line if she is just stringing you along
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@dude.88 | 21 November 13 |
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I think you've just been 'friend zoned'
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@4tina | 21 November 13 |
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give up
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@sillyxx | 21 November 13 |
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U give up ul always have the what if question .. Ask her about it and then if it ends atleast ul no!
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@xxlee | 22 November 13 |
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Gud advice silly
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@kelypso | 22 November 13 |
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Haha. Give up.
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@jamaican | 22 November 13 |
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Take her out somewhere.
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@seana207 | 23 November 13 |
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Say to her how u feel, be honest with her about how u feel!bt dnt give up,
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@richeet | 23 November 13 |
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not if you like her
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@mrintentional | 24 November 13 |
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she playing you give up
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@ayeitsme | 24 November 13 |
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try standing in her garden if she rings the police it wasnt meant to be but if her curtains are lil bit open means she wants you . . .
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@chrsylyn | 27 November 13 |
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giue up more out there
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@whtdragn | 28 November 13 |
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Well. Looks like I was just being strung along. She's got someone new in her life. Won't chat with me or anything. I feel like a fool for even trying. If I knew it was going to turn out like this, I would have rather not met her.
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@sardonic | 28 November 13 |
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dya really wanna be someones rebound? Let her heal n try n tap it later on when she isn't a bag of hormones and irrational insecurities.
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@kid_ka0s | 28 November 13 |
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Dip ur fingers and run...
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@banbury | 28 November 13 |
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I Woulnt give up but just try and chat to her as a friend, be friendly but nothing more. Just Take things very slowly and dont push anything and you will be fine. If she appears uncomfortable when you chat to her back off for a bit and give her some space and she will let you know if shes interested.
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@banbury | 28 November 13 |
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just start with a simple hello how are you today that cant do any harm. Just something to break the ice, even a casual comment about the weather. Just the same old ordinary chat you would make with anyone, its a start, just nothing heavy. Get the picture? She will either aknowledge you or she wont. Just try and be a friend for now.
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@banbury | 28 November 13 |
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4 years is quite a while so she maybe a bit mixed up in the head emotionally. She may have got excited about you at first but then felt unable to carry it out. Thats why you should just try and be a friend for now. And if she does like you that way she will come round eventually. The most important thing to remember is that women dont like being pressurised.
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@whtdragn | 4 December 13 |
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@banbury thanks for the advice but I don't want to be stuck as just her friend. And is there any way to develop a romantic relationship from friendship? |
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