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@x.z.z.x | 11 April 14 | |
Having 3 kids by different dads isn't bad parenting its bad choice of men. Im pretty sure she didnt plan on having kids by different dads. Anyhow a bloke can knowingly impregnate several women and walk away - now thats bad parenting. As for the 60year old... who are you to judge? Do you have kids Joybags?
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@tokage | 11 April 14 | |
it doesn't make her a bad parent... the age of her current partner is of no concern or relevance if they are both of age.... the only diffs between her nd many other women is she had sex with more than one partner, as do most, over a say 10 yr period, but she got prefnant while others didn't. says nothin abt her parentin skills at all.
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@joybags | 11 April 14 | |
Its just my opinion. If I got pregnant to a man I loved and for whatever reason we broke up.. Then the same happened a 2nd time round I wouldnt have anymore ..those kids will not only grow up in a broken home (fact a broken home is when one parent is no longer around) they will probably be subject to bullying ..not only for the fact they all have different dads but that their mum is at the school gates with a grey old man that most will presume is their grandfather! Not fair but it will happen.
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@joybags | 11 April 14 | |
@ gooji - 10.04.14 - 04:15pm Well said silly.. My ex had three kids to three men by the time she was 32 and is now finally married to my mate (don't ask lol) and she is the most non slappery person going. Kids 'fathers' don't wanna know. However im on the fence about the 60 year old... If he can provide stability and love then who are we to argue. Bear in mind that he'll drawing his pension before the kids leave school!! Irresponsible! |
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@joybags | 11 April 14 | |
Yes I have 3 very wise very beautiful kids!
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@obsidian21 | 11 April 14 | |
Depends why each kid has a different dad. Also with the 60 years old can be true love. I see theseddays age is just a number. You can't judge persons just like that. Life isn't kind to everybody.
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@sillyxx | 13 April 14 | |
@ joybags - 11.04.14 - 09:59am Its just my opinion. If I got pregnant to a man I loved and for whatever reason we broke up.. Then the same happened a 2nd time round I wouldnt have anymore ..those kids will not only grow up in a broken home (fact a broken home is when one parent is no longer around) they will probably be subject to bullying ..not only for the fact they all have different dads but that their mum is at the school gates with a grey old man that most will presume is their grandfather! Not fair but it will happen. This is the biggest pile of shiit I have ever read on here and that's saying something! My kids have the same dad, so I'm not exactly in that situation but if I was to have kids with my current partner and then have kids 2 diff dads doesn't make them more pr*ne to being bullied! It's hardly rare these days, and it's people like you with them opinions that pass them on to others and so forth that would be the only reason a child would be bullied for it, nothing but small minded people! As for them being from a 'broken home' I prefer the term 'happy home' as that's what mine have, I'd rather me and my kids be in a stable happy environment than sticking by an ex that makes me unhappy for the sake of what idiots like you will think! ... As for the older man that's her choice and as long as her and her kids are happy and loved who are you to judge? I'd stick to taking all them selfies if I was you |
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@uniquelyme | 13 April 14 | |
totally agree with Silly . . but Flip the coin, do we pull men over the coals for doing the same? Not often. Broken homes are not an issue in the playgrounds today. Most are from happy one parent families and even more from joined families . . second marriages etc. Family life evolves . . if someone finds love . . fking grab it! a child isnt concerned about a parents age . . as long as they are loved.
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@lightbulb | 13 April 14 | |
I've got 3 running around in Gambia. one in liverpool and 2 in Essex all diff mothers.
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@sillyxx | 13 April 14 | |
@ uniquelyme - 13.04.14 - 01:12am totally agree with Silly . . but Flip the coin, do we pull men over the coals for doing the same? Not often. Broken homes are not an issue in the playgrounds today. Most are from happy one parent families and even more from joined families . . second marriages etc. Family life evolves . . if someone finds love . . fking grab it! a child isnt concerned about a parents age . . as long as they are loved. |
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