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Not much of a topic really, there is a day we have here where we are supposed to ask random people how they are. Mental health awareness stuff. I doubt forum people want to admit if stuff is wrong. But I genuinely mean it, it's not a once a year thing for me, if anyone is having a rough time my inbox is open or whatever. |
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@propidol | 19 September 16 |
No. I am far from it.
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@shadow27 | 19 September 16 |
You think you are having a bad day.. then you ask someone else how they are and it turns out they have a million more reasons to be struggling than you. That's always an eye opener for me.
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@ogdenz | 19 September 16 |
Most people are struggling with something.
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@shadow27 | 19 September 16 |
If you need to talk I'm here. If that kind of thing helps you.
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@birdy | 19 September 16 |
You ok shads?
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@shadow27 | 19 September 16 |
I have become an emo apparently. Usually I'm kind of upbeat and always seeing the bright side and the last few days it's like I'm coming down from the best opiate in the universe. And I thought 'Is this how normal people feel all the time?' |
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@shadow27 | 19 September 16 |
There's various ways to deal with this I guess *lying down on the couch* I guess conventional medicine might try to medicate you back to your normal self, or some sort of behavioural therapy. What has helped me was getting involved in something useful, or challenging. I really believe that has helped me with anxiety/depression. Yeah.. well that's me. And I wonder how I've insulated myself from this feeling of hopelessness that I drowned in just recently. I definitely take a lot for granted. I bulls**t my way out of things. Hit that point where I need to reassess everything.. I dunno. |
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@obi_jon | 19 September 16 |
@ shadow27 - 19.09.16 - 12:54pm Not much of a topic really, there is a day we have here where we are supposed to ask random people how they are. Mental health awareness stuff. I doubt forum people want to admit if stuff is wrong. But I genuinely mean it, it's not a once a year thing for me, if anyone is having a rough time my inbox is open or whatever. 'How are you?' in general conversation is the question most frequently lied about when it is asked. Most people when asked how they are, will respond with 'good', 'ok', 'fine', 'not so bad', even if in reality they really are not. |
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@sourface | 19 September 16 |
No things arnt ok they are far from ok but wont talk about it
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@helena03 | 19 September 16 |
Hope you'll be ok ok soon
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@dodgey | 19 September 16 |
Pointless worrying about anything or thinking about things that you can't change as you will just make things worse for yourself for no reason. Certainly don't waste your time worrying about other peoples problems.
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@shadow27 | 19 September 16 |
Sour you have helped me through a hard time before, so just.. You know.
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@shadow27 | 19 September 16 |
@ dodgey - 19.09.16 - 01:56pm Pointless worrying about anything or thinking about things that you can't change as you will just make things worse for yourself for no reason. Certainly don't waste your time worrying about other peoples problems. I asked someone how they were today, she said her brother has just killed himself. Maybe he could have used someone to talk to and there was nobody there. |
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@ementalm | 19 September 16 |
i have adhd but the grief for my mum has made it more aggressive because my emotions are all over the place too, I've tried channeling my hyperactivity through walking, is there any other suggestions people have?
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@sourface | 19 September 16 |
@ shadow27 - 19.09.16 - 02:01pm Sour you have helped me through a hard time before, so just.. You know. I never even knew you were having a bad time ![]() |
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@mikeymk | 19 September 16 |
Peachy creamy - apart from my left arm. Yesterday I thought I'd got some sort of chemical burn, but this morning I realised its travelled all the way up to my tee sleeve line and it dawned on me - the night before, I made a whole new exhaust system for my car at work, and my rashed arm is actually UV damage from the weld light (same as sunburn). Other than that, it's all opium ![]() |
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@mz.c | 19 September 16 |
I'm not one for sharing my stuff but nice offer shadow ![]() |
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@irnbrux | 19 September 16 |
@ ementalm - 19.09.16 - 02:03pm i have adhd but the grief for my mum has made it more aggressive because my emotions are all over the place too, I've tried channeling my hyperactivity through walking, is there any other suggestions people have? My mate has adhd. We met through an autistic group for our kids. I made her my assistant leader. A productive hobby that gave her something to bounce over the walls about. Her brain is none stop. The kids love it when she flaps and gets over excited, which made her less paranoid about it. .she now hasa craft hobby and sells the stuff she makes. Cycles everywhere. Burns up more than walking. |
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@irnbrux | 19 September 16 |
I'm doing good today. Seizure free days are always good. My babies cpr certificate came today. Im well impressed ![]() |
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@kelypso | 19 September 16 |
I'm always okay.
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