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@birdy | 22 May 19 | |
I don't mean she as in your sister.. I mean in general. lol
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@ladibud | 22 May 19 | |
@ birdy - 22.05.19 - 09:50am It happens often enough, it's a worry to see someone say that's their only protection, as if it's 100 percent.. and assuming way too much to think the male would have any control over if she even takes it correctly. yup... it's my only form as well... I don't want kids. EVER.... but so far so good... no bun in the oven. should it ever happen tho.... what will be will be. |
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@ladibud | 22 May 19 | |
@ birdy - 22.05.19 - 09:52am I don't mean she as in your sister.. I mean in general. lol I kno lucky all 3 were with her partner of many many years and they see all 3 as blessings. I don't know how they can think of the youngest one as a blessing but hey parents and their devil spawn eh... just joking, of course he is a blessing. and I love him. but boys..... no fk that lol. |
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@kimjongl | 22 May 19 | |
@ piggle - 22.05.19 - 12:09am So a guy who has a strong belief of conception being sacrosanct and abortion being abhorrent yet he's with someone that he knows doesn't feel the same, or worse, he doesn't know if they feel the same... what is his only way of completely avoiding a woman potentially destroying his baby? Thoughts and prayers? Relying on her? Women change their mind. Having your child murdered on the whim of someone changing their mind doesn't seem like an appropriate punishment for having sex with them. |
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@trashy | 22 May 19 | |
@ dan27notts - 21.05.19 - 11:54pm Your point still makes it a 50/50 responsibility in my opinion. As a male and if i didnt want a child i wouldn't throw my load up a woman that wasnt on the pill, thats my responsibility. If you are a woman that doesn't want a child then you have to take your own responsibilities, you cant say 'have unprotected with me but please dont spunk in me' as that is a very risky form of birth control Her being on the pill is not really you taking responsibility though, it's her. Wearing a condom would be your responsibility. I don't know how people trust other people with contraception. I always double up cos I'm paranoid af. Not that I'm getting any |
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@bozzalad | 22 May 19 | |
@ kimjongl - 22.05.19 - 11:09am Women change their mind. Having your child murdered on the whim of someone changing their mind doesn't seem like an appropriate punishment for having sex with them. this |
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@piggle | 22 May 19 | |
@ kimjongl - 22.05.19 - 11:09am Women change their mind. Having your child murdered on the whim of someone changing their mind doesn't seem like an appropriate punishment for having sex with them. Alright. How many women do this? And what do you know about the change in circumstance? And in the same vein how is being forced by law to risk everything about your autonomy and life a suitable punishment for having sex? |
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@dan27notts | 22 May 19 | |
@ trashy - 22.05.19 - 07:39pm Her being on the pill is not really you taking responsibility though, it's her. Wearing a condom would be your responsibility. I don't know how people trust other people with contraception. I always double up cos I'm paranoid af. Not that I'm getting any Yeah i see what you mean but I guess I just applied it to my current situation i.e my gf is on the pill and thats our contraception and thats the level of risk i see fit to not wear a condom, also knowing that if she ever was pregnant we'd keep it anyway. If it was some random girl then yes the lad should always bag up if he doesn't want a child. Do you watch teen mum UK? |
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@trashy | 22 May 19 | |
Yeah that's fair enough if you're in a relationship and both trust each other. But the amount of lads I used to know who would just assume the girl is on the pill and whined about having to wear a condom. I didn't even know there was a UK version! I used to watch the US version back in the day |
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@bozzalad | 22 May 19 | |
@ piggle - 22.05.19 - 08:43pm Alright. How many women do this? And what do you know about the change in circumstance? And in the same vein how is being forced by law to risk everything about your autonomy and life a suitable punishment for having sex? don't take the risk then it can't happen |
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