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@birdy | 21 August 17 | |
Even 52 to 127 is regular care, and the amount payable drops.
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@propidol | 21 August 17 | |
It gets deducted from my wages..
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@dan27notts | 21 August 17 | |
My and my ex just have our own agreement, i give her 40 quid a week. Im happy, shes happy, no need for state involvement
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@bozzalad | 21 August 17 | |
tight git
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@recurve16 | 21 August 17 | |
My ex insisted on gettin the CSA involved when we parted company 20 years ago. She was demanding double the amount I had been paying her for the first few months. She contacted them, they contacted me, visited me at home, done the maths and the monthly payment they wanted was less than I had been paying her weekly... Result. |
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@propidol | 21 August 17 | |
@ dan27notts - 21.08.17 - 06:28pm My and my ex just have our own agreement, i give her 40 quid a week. Im happy, shes happy, no need for state involvement Get receipts. |
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@mikeymk | 21 August 17 | |
The most likely outcome is they sit in the background just as security for both of us, whilst we do our thing. That's what I went for today. The more they get involved, the more of a cut they'll take off her. I don't want them taking anything, and we can avoid it, so.. The CSA was some protection for me, proof etc, it was her idea which worked for me as I'd offered a touch more. Now if i just keep bank records, all's safe. 40 a week is about right with visits - which hadn't been factored in until today. |
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@dan27notts | 21 August 17 | |
@ propidol - 21.08.17 - 07:47pm Get receipts. Yeah i know but honestly shes cool, she wouldnt have it in her to do me over, not now anyway lol we get on better now than we ever did when we were together |
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@gt_tdi | 21 August 17 | |
@ dan27notts - 21.08.17 - 08:53pm Yeah i know but honestly shes cool, she wouldnt have it in her to do me over, not now anyway lol we get on better now than we ever did when we were together Take the advice, make sure things are documented. It's better to be safe than have a huge bill because you can't prove you paid and things have become less amicable for whatever reason. Several of my friends have been really screwed over like that in the past. One of them was h*t with a bill of over six grand. He'd previously said pretty much what you said too. |
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@gurlygal | 21 August 17 | |
..well my sons dad transfers me 100 a month via online bankin so thers proof , if i ask for a lil bit extra like 30/40 if he can 2 help wi school uniform for sept he usually helps, i wud never go thru csa or even threaten it etc coz the most important thing is that he sees him, n i dnt like causin drama between us that could affect r son
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