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@wickedwitch | 1 July 17 | |
His spirit hello.
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@mikeymk | 1 July 17 | |
If i wanted to say goodbye to someone, i'd go to a place we both were, sit down, think about them, come to a conclusion, say bye, and go. But i don't. I haven't walked away from anyone. Certainly not dead ones, anyway. I wonder if maybe the closure you need is for the end of your partnership, not to say goodbye completely. Like with a split. |
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@3mel | 1 July 17 | |
@ spcecake - 1.07.17 - 01:39am I left my partner ten years ago for him and he was supposed to leave her but couldn't. I've never held that against him. He was a good man and i owe it to him that she would never know I wouldn't even dream of it, you decided to respect his wishes in life now try and do that in death. you can always visit his grave site afterward and say your goodbyes. that way there's no risk of you having to force out a lie when someone asks where you knew him from and not being believed. worst time for that stuff etc etc. |
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@sisfreak2017 | 1 July 17 | |
in light of what youve said , i wouldn't go , no point his wife or daughter finding out about your and his time together. And fk to the guilt thing |
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@mikeymk | 1 July 17 | |
@ spcecake - 1.07.17 - 01:44am I know he's gone. I'll do my grieving my way. Thank you. It is guilt that wanted me to go x Well, the guilt is all you. If you feel any, think why, see it through. It's pointless now. If he was still with them and cheating, i really wouldn't worry. Let him take it. If they were split, you have nothing to feel guilty about. I'd leave his family to remember him at his funeral in peace, if only because you don't know guilt until you've gone there and wrecked it for them... |
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@spcecake | 1 July 17 | |
@ sisfreak2017 - 1.07.17 - 01:49am in light of what youve said , i wouldn't go , no point his wife or daughter finding out about your and his time together. And fk to the guilt thing The guilt thing is that i met someone a year ago and settled down. I found out he had cancer around the same time but didn't really contact him that much anymore. He said he felt guilty about me leaving my partner and just wanted me to settle down before he died. I just should have been there more |
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@sisfreak2017 | 1 July 17 | |
think he'd be glad that you settled down ,just deal with your grief in your own private way ,times the cure.
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@spcecake | 1 July 17 | |
@ sisfreak2017 - 1.07.17 - 02:00am think he'd be glad that you settled down ,just deal with your grief in your own private way ,times the cure. It wasn't just me he messed about with. That's why i stopped seeing him (apart from the fact he didn't leave his wife) he was a true good friend though. One i did hold total admiration for. Rip x |
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@spcecake | 1 July 17 | |
Thank you everyone. Who else could i ask.... this is where it began. Prodigits x
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@zoot | 1 July 17 | |
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