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@mikeymk | 12 August 18 | |
My first proper girlfriend moved too quick for me, i split with her, she went on the rebound with three of my mates and i walked from all hope of a friendship. She tried coming back a couple of times over the next decade, but i wasn't going for it. I just did the friendly thing. She then settled down with some guy, they married, now got three teenagers themselves. I kinda kicked myself, but i just dont think it'd have been the same. We were never gonna work, and i'm glad i did whatever it was she needed of me so she could go off and do that. |
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@say.what | 12 August 18 | |
It wasn't like she got down on one knee and I just said no... I would have just slightly just changed the subject or asked for remote control
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@say.what | 12 August 18 | |
@ piggle - 12.08.18 - 05:44pm I've spent the past 2 years rumbling about in my past, with my partner, to figure out why we were the way we were. We reflected and acknowledged and changed. Both our lives done a 180. Out of poverty, multiple streams of income, great relationship, happier and much healthier. Don't dismiss the power of some internal investigation and the attitude change that comes with it. And yes, all this wanky sh*t is what it all boils down to. Knowing who and what you are and how you affect those around you I could have/should have done this with her, she would have welcomed it and encouraged it... But I didn't.... I just can't fathom the birthday phone call at her own party, maybe I'm putting to much into that, but it must play a part surely?... |
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@3mel | 12 August 18 | |
one year older... one year less of her life remaining ? catalyst for reevaluating ?
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@say.what | 12 August 18 | |
I guess really, I'd love the chance to put things right with her, certain things have changed and that we used to argue about.. I know that can't happen while the other guy is about... I've wanted to talk and communicate with her for months, and finally she gets in contact with me... I just don't know what to do with it
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@say.what | 12 August 18 | |
@ 3mel - 12.08.18 - 05:56pm one year older... one year less of her life remaining ? catalyst for reevaluating ? Agreed... A text probably would have been sufficient? For me sneaking upstairs is a different level?... Oh I don't fkn no |
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@ladibud | 13 August 18 | |
from my point of view she shouldn't be in a relationship with anyone atm. she obviously imo, going on my own experience, isn't over the pain you and your break up caused her... the first sms shows am not of anger, frustration and pain. ignore her texrs and let her grieve and get over her hurt... well tell her you are sorry and that for both your sakes you won't be replying or answering her calls, don't just ignore without telling her... she is still very raw and confused and needs time to sort it all out for herself |
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@dan27notts | 13 August 18 | |
My ex used to to bug me to propose to her to the point she even told me where and when i had to propose to her. Even though she was cheating on and being a general all round slag. So she may not of said it to you for the right reasons especially if it was fairly early in to the relationship and it wasnt a mutual feeling that thats where you both were at. She could of just been seeking validation and trying to tie you down due to her own insecurities. Or she may have a personality disorder like my ex. |
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@sisfreak2017 | 13 August 18 | |
bumped into an ex earlier from over 25 years ago , its brought back quite some memories really nice catchup , apparantly she's as fked up as me.
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@sisfreak2017 | 20 August 18 | |
randomly met same ex again today . Glad were speaking again after all that time. |
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