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@tazdevil | 17 February 19 | |
@ slick_01 - 17.02.19 - 03:38am It seems most of your friends are fkd up? I have noticed this haha I seem to accumulate these toxic/negative 'friends' who kvetch too much. Don't get me wrong, though. I have friends who sometimes moan and whinge, and some are going through hard times. They aren't what I'd class as toxic/negative friends. I like to help and support them when they turn to me for comfort, and I have always been a good listener. But some people are just emotional vampires who suck the life/soul out of you. They latch onto you, and really do take advantage. They are the 'friends' who leave you feeling drained and irritated. Good thing is, I have gotten better at spotting them now and I have become quite adept at phasing out these people from my life. |
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@tazdevil | 17 February 19 | |
@ 3mel - 17.02.19 - 04:22am if she grew up in a bad home environment she might never have learned ''how to have feelings'' in what we'd call a normal way. if that's the case she won't change without help. if this seems to fit, whether you're buddies again or not, you might want her to hear that concept. leave her to put the rest together herself that she maybe has an issue that has a developmental cause (as opposed to trauma). It's beyond me. I've tried my best. I reached out to her and offered her help/support and everything, but it seems like a pattern of behaviour with this chick. I do feel bad for her, but I have done pretty much all I could. You can't help someone who doesn't want help. She needs professional intervention for sure. At some point, you just have to protect your own sanity by letting it go. I hope she gets help some day. What a miserable way to live! |
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@crimson | 17 February 19 | |
It's not your job or responsibility to 'fix' her or anyone else. Manipulation is a form of abuse, she abused you. Blocking and cutting her off is the best thing you can do. And don't feel guilty about it. The only thing going through her head right now is to find a new person to abuse. She doesn't care that you're gone.
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@tazdevil | 17 February 19 | |
@ crimson - 17.02.19 - 01:54pm It's not your job or responsibility to 'fix' her or anyone else. Manipulation is a form of abuse, she abused you. Blocking and cutting her off is the best thing you can do. And don't feel guilty about it. The only thing going through her head right now is to find a new person to abuse. She doesn't care that you're gone. Yes concur. I blocked her to extricate myself, and it feels like someone lifted a weight off of me X |
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@crimson | 17 February 19 | |
Right! It feels so good to get rid of negative people, now you just need to forget about her.
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@sisfreak2017 | 17 February 19 | |
i think you should perhaps treat her to some new shoes
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@tazdevil | 17 February 19 | |
@ sisfreak2017 - 17.02.19 - 07:50pm i think you should perhaps treat her to some new shoes Spare me lol she will blithely move on to the next person and stick to them like flypaper, and I do hope they will treat her some new shoes. |
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@mz.c | 17 February 19 | |
@crail | 17 February 19 | |
@ tazdevil - 17.02.19 - 09:30pm Spare me lol she will blithely move on to the next person and stick to them like flypaper, and I do hope they will treat her some new shoes. Like fly paper? Like really sticky smelly sh*t that you cant wipe off |
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@tranie | 18 February 19 | |
purely going by how you act on here, id say that you are the negative friend, that ppl try to avoid. you come across as very needy, its all about you, you still cry about some dude from years ago who dumped you for a bit of pussy you moan when they dont answer your txts, when they ignore you on faceshyte. sorry dude but id avoid you like the plague if i knew you in real life.
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