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@ladibud | 19 September 18 | |
@ superunknown - 19.09.18 - 01:23am Is it petty not to help someone that needs help because you don't like them? I know someone that has health issues, and everyone is asking for donations to get them something but I'd rather spend my money on me. Because I like me. It's not like I'm loaded. Does that sound really bad to you, or is that just normal? lol not for me to judge you... can just say what I'd do... if I can I will help. it doesn't matter whether I like them or not. they are fellow humans suffering or in trouble and I don't like that for anyone irrespective of my personal reasons for not liking them. I just can't see someone in trouble or suffering and do nothing if I could do something. |
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@deusexmachina | 19 September 18 | |
Give them the gift of independence. They will benefit from it more.
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@ladibud | 19 September 18 | |
@ superunknown - 19.09.18 - 01:51am I'm more annoyed about my offer being thrown back in my face, lol I offered to GIVE HER my own work and got told nah it's ok we found this cheap tacky sh*t instead. Just give us some money. Just seems so rude. oh right... no. you need not feel petty or guilty or anything and if someone thinks you are then it's their problem. ... you offered help that was needed... just do what makes you feel comfortable now |
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@ladibud | 19 September 18 | |
@ superunknown - 19.09.18 - 01:57am I doubt she knows what it's like to really need help and not get it. if she is financially better off than you and you offered an item needed them really there is no moral dilemma here imo |
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@iilmadme | 19 September 18 | |
You actually seem lovely.and you tried.dont give it another thought x
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@shadow27 | 19 September 18 | |
I am happy to say I don't know anyone like this lol ie: the woman in the topic
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@shadow27 | 19 September 18 | |
I have helped out a neighbour before paid her power bill, but there was really no obligation to do so. I just figured I knew them, they've got kids.. Might as well help out.
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@mz.c | 19 September 18 | |
If I can help I'll try but some people abuse that kindness of others. Do what you think is best.
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@piggle | 19 September 18 | |
I do what I want. 2 years ago I actually realised that I do not ever need to do anything I don't want to do... Life has just got ridiculously better ever since lol
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@3mel | 19 September 18 | |
@ shadow27 - 19.09.18 - 09:48am I have helped out a neighbour before paid her power bill, but there was really no obligation to do so. I just figured I knew them, they've got kids.. Might as well help out. |
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