i will not condone sin including my own. but im also not a better then thou self righteous snob. i understand we are still in the flesh and falter. im not saying its ok,im saying we all err and what we need to do is turn with a sincere heart back to GOD in true repentance. and to incorporate prayers from others. my suggestion are people who respect you enough not to pressure you to tell personal details. but waits till your comfortable enough to approach them if you feel the need.