ever lost loved one?

Nothing hurts more than a
loved one leaving our lives,
under what ever
cir tances they go.
They leave a void that cannot
be replaced, they leave an
inprint on your heart and
memories that we hold dear
forever.
When we loose our loved
ones, it can be hard, we get
angry and overcome with
grief at our loss, we feel sad.
Not everyone understands
what you are going through
people who were ok with you
before will now cross the
street to avoid talking to you,
do not take this personally it
is just a matter that they do
not know what to say to you.
They have no idea that you
may want to talk about the
one you have loved and lost.
We all react differently to
grief there is no right way and
no wrong way, just be
yourself and whatever
emotions need to come out
allow them to flow.
I remember when dad was
dying i was told by the
counsellor that because i
knew he had cancer and he
was dying all the pain i felt
was coming now, this can
happen to a lot of us as we
watch those we love get
worse and again others will
not understand what it is you
maybe going through, but
through the grace of God
they never will.
For me watching dad suffer
was not easy, when he
passed a lot of the pain went
away as I now knew he would
be happy and healthy once
more.
The last day he was awake
and with us he told me he
loved me twice and held my
hand and that gift for me is
priceless, I will never forget
that.
This post is for anyone
experiencing this at the
moment I know the pain you
are going through and I
understand what you are
feeling.
Shared with love
Carole