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Why do feelings fade? Why do people change? Why do they often become the person they said they would never be? |
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@eyesore | 23 September 16 |
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maybe you're just boring
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@z3ta | 23 September 16 |
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Some people pull away because of fear. They're scared of getting hurt, scared of hurting someone and, even, scared of things actually working out. Everyone's lives have been shaped by their relationships. All of them. Parents, siblings, teachers, friends, lovers. And some of these relationships were not healthy. They caused pain and shame or guilt. It's very common for people to take past traumas and make that a part of their core beliefs. The problem is, when they are faced with a different type of relationship, these old core beliefs rear up and can cause damage. When someone is willing to make changes in their core beliefs they can love themselves. Only when we love ourselves can we fully love another. It sounds like your partner has something's he might need to talk to someone about. Be supportive and understand he may not be ready, and that's O.K. It is not your job to save him and it is perfectly healthy to limit the time you want to stand beside him while he saves himself. We often want everything to stay the same, but feelings fade and people change. There are people who we think will be in our lives forever that become distant memories of our past. Do not fret. Feelings fading, and people changing is a part of life, and if you are growing as a person, not everyone will grow with you. You dont have to forget your past, instead learn from it and use this wisdom to choose the people who will surround you in the future  |
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@z3ta | 23 September 16 |
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@daniieel | 24 September 16 |
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that's pretty deep for prodigits.
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@wkd.gal | 25 September 16 |
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people learn from lifes mistakes
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@birdy | 25 September 16 |
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Everything changes.
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@okechjoel | 26 September 16 |
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just only sex
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@fiftyshadesofgreat | 30 September 16 |
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@ fallingangel - 23.09.16 - 04:03pm Why do feelings fade? Why do people change? Why do they often become the person they said they would never be? Feelings come and go, but integrity is permanent. |
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@ladibud | 1 October 16 |
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life happens, we change due to our experiences. and it isn't a bad thing. in relationships ppl need to grow together or they will drift apart. feelinga change. sadly we do fall out of love for various reasons. the trick is really liking the one in love and growing together. it is a choice.
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@kayvink | 13 October 16 |
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@ fallingangel - 23.09.16 - 04:03pm Why do feelings fade? Why do people change? Why do they often become the person they said they would never be? it's all simple,familiarity breeds contempt..and the opposite is absence makes the heart grow fonder.dnt be so close to your patner always. |
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@connexionzephyr | 17 December 16 |
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Life and relationships have no smooth paved straight flat roads...
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@connexionzephyr | 17 December 16 |
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Sometimes people come into your life-they change and fade...could serve some sort of purpose...lesson to be leant,help figure out who we are...
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@kayvan2 | 18 December 16 |
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@ fallingangel - 23.09.16 - 04:03pm Why do feelings fade? Why do people change? Why do they often become the person they said they would never be? not that people change but rather it's with time that you eventually get know an individual's true colours.that side of them that they have been hiding from you. |
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@swtraven | 14 January 17 |
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People don't change, they simply hide who they truly are until they're comfortable or don't care anymore.
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@skatty | 15 January 17 |
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Global warming.
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@mr.tuube | 16 January 17 |
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I once changed into Barry white..then he died..ah well
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@sweetp3a | 30 January 17 |
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@ z3ta - 23.09.16 - 07:33pm Some people pull away because of fear. They're scared of getting hurt, scared of hurting someone and, even, scared of things actually working out. Everyone's lives have been shaped by their relationships. All of them. Parents, siblings, teachers, friends, lovers. And some of these relationships were not healthy. They caused pain and shame or guilt. It's very common for people to take past traumas and make that a part of their core beliefs. The problem is, when they are faced with a different type of relationship, these old core beliefs rear up and can cause damage. When someone is willing to make changes in their core beliefs they can love themselves. Only when we love ourselves can we fully love another. It sounds like your partner has something's he might need to talk to someone about. Be supportive and understand he may not be ready, and that's O.K. It is not your job to save him and it is perfectly healthy to limit the time you want to stand beside him while he saves himself. We often want everything to stay the same, but feelings fade and people change. There are people who we think will be in our lives forever that become distant memories of our past. Do not fret. Feelings fading, and people changing is a part of life, and if you are growing as a person, not everyone will grow with you. You dont have to forget your past, instead learn from it and use this wisdom to choose the people who will surround you in the future This. Well said peta! |
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@nomnom | 9 February 17 |
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Life is full of change. Progress forward, or sink and die.
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