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@sweetcaroline | |
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I'm interested in people's views on this.My partner goes out with his male mates 2 the pub and it's not the 1st time it's happened he brings females back with him and his mates.I've been with him since 2006.He's got a bar upstairs.They wasn't here 4 very long because he broke the law as a policeman walked in and asked me where the party was through the pandemic and they had 2 leave |
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@vampboy | 25 October 20 |
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So he broke the law and the police simply applied and upheld the law and asked your mate to leave. I'm not sure what difference adding my view to this could make. This is purely a policy decision. |
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@sweetcaroline | 25 October 20 |
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No that's not what I meant it's bringing back females it's the fact that I live with him and we have a daughter 2gether
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@r3ckless | 25 October 20 |
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Quite clearly he doesn't respect you. Speak up and tell him .
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@newt182 | 25 October 20 |
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Pretty sure the mrs wouldn't be happy if I brought females home, unless they were with my mates and she was also invited to come up to the bar and have drinks. But then if she didn't want to I would probably not have anyone around. Sounds like a bit of a lack of respect, but then I guess we haven't heard his side of the story |
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@vampboy | 25 October 20 |
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Oh. So it makes you feel bad that he does? I totally understand. Why do you put up with it?
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@sweetcaroline | 25 October 20 |
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Would it bother u if say a girlfriend of yours went out and brought home other blokes in your property?
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@newt182 | 25 October 20 |
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@ sweetcaroline - 25.10.20 - 03:22pm Would it bother u if say a girlfriend of yours went out and brought home other blokes in your property? Yeah that's not happening lol. |
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@wakeup4 | 25 October 20 |
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@ sweetcaroline - 25.10.20 - 03:06pm I'm interested in people's views on this.My partner goes out with his male mates 2 the pub and it's not the 1st time it's happened he brings females back with him and his mates.I've been with him since 2006.He's got a bar upstairs.They wasn't here 4 very long because he broke the law as a policeman walked in and asked me where the party was through the pandemic and they had 2 leave Wtf did you let them in for? And sign of a warrant?? |
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@vampboy | 25 October 20 |
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@ sweetcaroline - 25.10.20 - 03:22pm Would it bother u if say a girlfriend of yours went out and brought home other blokes in your property? What do these blokes mean to her? Are they friends? Collegues? That'd be a factor to consider. |
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@yash9893 | 25 October 20 |
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just talk with him about it and let him know u don't like other females coming to ur home
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@vampboy | 25 October 20 |
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I once dated an older married woman (found out later) and she invited me over to her place to have dinner with her husband. I was stunned. I asked her if he was cool with her going out with guys like that then bringing them home. She blatantly told me she could care less how he felt. She wanted me to dine next to him. I honestly felt utter contempt towards her. |
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@sweetcaroline | 25 October 20 |
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Last time I told him I would move out.It's 1 thing chatting and laughing with people when u r out .it's not like he doesn't knows I'm not here.It's not only that I'm going through cancer check ups they finish next Friday.I may have 2 have 1 redone again tho as if I haven't got enough on my plate
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@sweetcaroline | 25 October 20 |
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U wouldn't hear his side of the story as he doesn't use this site.I've got no problem with him going out in all fairness and it's not as such what I would class it as jealousy as I know he wouldn't do anything.My only problem is why not call it a day at the pub.I don't want strangers in my home who he s been chatting 2 4 how many hours it was 4
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@sweetcaroline | 25 October 20 |
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I picked the door when he went out .I never let any1 in.He used his own keys 2 per every1 in himself
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@sweetcaroline | 25 October 20 |
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Locked not picked.So does this mean I have 2 put up with this most times he goes out then
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@tasti2 | 25 October 20 |
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I wouldnt have it 
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@trashy | 25 October 20 |
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@ sweetcaroline - 25.10.20 - 03:41pm Locked not picked.So does this mean I have 2 put up with this most times he goes out then No, you shouldn't have to put up with anything. If you've told him how you feel about it and he continues to do it anyway he's a di ckbag and clearly has no respect for you |
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@meta1bar | 25 October 20 |
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Why ask for advice? You sure as fu*k aren't going to take any of it
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@deusexmachina | 25 October 20 |
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Are the women his friends or he is just bringing randoms back?
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@newt182 | 25 October 20 |
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@ meta1bar - 25.10.20 - 04:03pm Why ask for advice? You sure as fu*k aren't going to take any of it The OP asked for opinion, not advice |
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