used to be the first way....got me nothing but shyt. now dunno bit of the last and in the middle. fed up gettin fkd over lol

It depends on where in my 'cycle' i am... Sometimes i can be the biggest gobshoite ever and other times im quite pschopathic hard to find a happy medium really.

i am no pushover, but i also kno that fair or unfair, u don't nd can't always get ur own way nd to save the real fight for somethin really worth it.

I used to just do anythin for a peaceful life, put up with untold s**t off everybody. it was I guess easier that way

I will hold my hands up and say I've let a pointless fight go, and also carried on strivin for my own way when I shouldn't have.

nopes i would never be able to do that. but also to put up a fight for every tiny thing is tiresome, on u nd those around u.

Im a bit of an extrovert and quite loud at times. I wont lay down and take it, but ive learnt as ive matured that sometimes its better to avoid certain confrontations. I was recently told a woman i know was bad mouthin me behind my back. Would of gone spare yrs back. But who to believe and maybe ruin a friendship? Duno. Dont care much.

I guess my inspiration for this post was not letting the doctors fob me off when it comes to my daughter. there was a time when I'd go with whatever they said. now I push for more info and a faster result.

that is good, u need to trust ur gut there nd push for all u are worth.

Fob off? I dont care if any1 fobs me off ,quieter life fob me

maybe its a maturity thing? I'm calmer than I used to be. and very matter of fact when dealing with people who like to bs u, so you leave them alone.

Oh like serious doctors? If im taking my kids to doctors,they are working for me ,no fob make them work,if your worried bout sumthing make em check doesnt hurt to check,might help to

it depends on how much i'm affected and if i really give a fk abt it. sometimes i just ket things be and when ppl think they manipulate me i rebel and show them i just couldn't be arsed to fight at that time and that i'm no1 one's fool, which thing they don't like and try to blame me all for it but then i really don't care and i dance my own dance, eventho that means i let them wit the eyes in the sun but it's allright, they shouldn't have tried to b***h wit me in the 1st place. :)

without going into too much detail, we nearly lost my big girl cos the docs fobbed me off n said just give her calpol. turned out to be much more serious than that.

oh i'm sorry nikkei, i hope ur big girl is better now...

I'm so not a push over and hardly trust or believe anything anyone says and if I do trust anyone they should count themselves lucky. Been too many times way in the past been taken for a mug so wised up and got clever.

I knew it but I just went with the professional opinion. despite knowin myself and my child better.

what sadie said nik. Your the docs boss where the kids are concerned.

Some stupid docs think they know it all

That's my point tho. Do u take everybody at their word or instantly distrust them and push for more?