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This is somewhat of a spin off but I would like to see what others think. With this ''everyone is a winner'' attitude being taught in school. Do you feel it's hurting kids or helping? Will they be ready for the harsh reality of life after school? For example. Kids team comes in last and everyone still gets a trophy. |
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@ogdenz | 26 September 13 |
Everyone's a winner certainly isn't true if we are talking of trophys and monetary prizes etc...but its a good attitude to have in general, kind of like its better to see the glass half full than half empty.
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@fireyes | 26 September 13 |
The team that didn't make the top 3 probably didn't train as hard and do what it takes to be the top of their division. To me this breeds the attitude of ''I don't have to work hard to get what others have''. When I was a kid, and most of you. If we didn't come in the top 3, we didn't get sht. And if you wanted a ribbon or trophy you had to work harder next time to get it
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@maberry | 26 September 13 |
it should be good for the kids ego but in a way it makes them live in a dream world. if you want to be a winner you should work more.
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@piggle | 26 September 13 |
How do you people that keep saying this even know ![]() |
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@maberry | 26 September 13 |
i thinkl everyone knows number one is number one but if everyone gets a price it makes them thinmk they are all talented for that sport, i'm not sure that's so bad after all. in a way a prize for anyone is a reward for the work.
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@fireyes | 26 September 13 |
That's a good point tiny. I saw a study done on honesty. Those participating didn't know they were being studied. They found that in the same situation of being rewarded twice, by accident. That those who had a lower income was more likely to return the extra reward. where those with higher incomes (never struggled) were more inclined to take the extra reward. Results, those who have had to fight to make it value money and what it takes to get it more than those who had it easy. So they would
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@madam.x | 26 September 13 |
I don't understand the concept, to be honest. At my grandkids sportsday you're only there to watch them demonstrate their skills. They aren't allowed to compete, in case it upsets the losers. Or is loser now an inappropriate word?
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@fireyes | 26 September 13 |
would return the extra reward and only take what they were supposed to get
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@iilmadme | 26 September 13 |
society is already full of ppl that have been treated like little princesses all their lives,n it's getting worse
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@fireyes | 26 September 13 |
@ piggle - 26.09.13 - 02:03pm How do you people that keep saying this even know ![]() We don't have to watch tv or have kids to see this. A lot of us work and see these 17 and 18 year olds come in with this ''entitlement'' attitude |
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@maberry | 26 September 13 |
i think the younger generations feel the older generations were suppresed so now they want to change the world that's why they set a new set of laws that they think , will burst the ego and encourage our kids.
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@ogdenz | 26 September 13 |
Even the terms winner and loser are Co dependent, the winner is to some degree dependent on the loser fr his or her status as Winner.
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@maberry | 26 September 13 |
i look at my mum and at me, she had bad teachers and not so forgiving parents, she was a little better with me and, i promised that i will give my kids a much better life than i had and that will never beat them.
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@wakeup4 | 26 September 13 |
@ fireyes - 26.09.13 - 01:55pm This is somewhat of a spin off but I would like to see what others think. With this ''everyone is a winner'' attitude being taught in school. Do you feel it's hurting kids or helping? Will they be ready for the harsh reality of life after school? For example. Kids team comes in last and everyone still gets a trophy. its socialist bs thats what it is. |
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@bozzalad | 26 September 13 |
@ fireyes - 26.09.13 - 01:55pm This is somewhat of a spin off but I would like to see what others think. With this ''everyone is a winner'' attitude being taught in school. Do you feel it's hurting kids or helping? Will they be ready for the harsh reality of life after school? For example. Kids team comes in last and everyone still gets a trophy. It is hurting kids , as is the rewarding bad behaviour attitude |
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@piggle | 26 September 13 |
You can't possible know enough children or enough schools to make that sort of judgement on entire generations. Because its certainly not my experience of kids today.
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@propidol | 26 September 13 |
I see an awful lot of self entitled behaviour and ingrained belief that they are untouchable and are therefore able to behave as they wish.
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@bozzalad | 26 September 13 |
I don't know if it affects all kids but sure affects a great many
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@clarkson | 26 September 13 |
is your tag fir-eyes or fire-yes?
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@star2020 | 26 September 13 |
You've got so many unresolved trailer trash issues.
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