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Anybody pay it? Or involved in it recently? The Child Support Agency is closing down, and parents are finding alternative methods. I've been paying it for four years now, and so far it's been all good. As i'm friends with the ex, we agreed to just carry on between ourselves, but a new service 'Child Maintenance Service' have sent me a letter saying they're acting as a replacement.  They've calculated a new payment of almost  300 per month. As i have the brat here like forty percent of the time, i think this is a little excessive. So i wondered if anyone else here has had experience with these people yet? |
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@mz.c | 21 August 17 |
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My kids dad doesn't pay that much for 2 children.
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@birdy | 21 August 17 |
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I don't want it, he does his share. If you have her 40 percent of the time, here that would mean you would pay less than say someone who only has their child every second weekend or whatever, which is fairly common. |
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@sisfreak2017 | 21 August 17 |
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no but as you say your still friends i do hope you can come to an agreement obviously if that amounts much higher than your provide already.
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@mikeymk | 21 August 17 |
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I can't help thinking if i had her sixty percent of the time i wouldn't get three ton a month. I've just had a chat with them and i'm feeling a little better, since they now have a little more information to go on. I gotta say they do seem okay, and all should be well. I'll see what the ex thinks in a few days. |
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@nikkei | 21 August 17 |
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I dont take a penny from him. He doesnt offer.
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@crail | 21 August 17 |
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She'll probably start a house fire from the friction of rubbing her hands together. Hope not though
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@bozzalad | 21 August 17 |
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@ mikeymk - 21.08.17 - 05:26pm I can't help thinking if i had her sixty percent of the time i wouldn't get three ton a month. I've just had a chat with them and i'm feeling a little better, since they now have a little more information to go on. I gotta say they do seem okay, and all should be well. I'll see what the ex thinks in a few days. don't believe a word of it |
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@birdy | 21 August 17 |
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It's a shame so many seem to have bad experiences with this.
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@piggle | 21 August 17 |
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Nah no worth the hassle it would get me.
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@birdy | 21 August 17 |
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Do you have the option of continuing the agreement between yourselves though? I think that's still an option here. It's just a private agreement, and you'd pay directly to her, instead of them as a go between.
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@birdy | 21 August 17 |
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Well yeah, I guess that depends on your relationship though, wouldn't work for everyone.
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@bozzalad | 21 August 17 |
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@ birdy - 21.08.17 - 05:36pm Do you have the option of continuing the agreement between yourselves though? I think that's still an option here. It's just a private agreement, and you'd pay directly to her, instead of them as a go between. that seems mostly to depend if the main parent gets benefits |
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@mz.c | 21 August 17 |
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@ birdy - 21.08.17 - 05:36pm Do you have the option of continuing the agreement between yourselves though? I think that's still an option here. It's just a private agreement, and you'd pay directly to her, instead of them as a go between. Yeah u do. |
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@bozzalad | 21 August 17 |
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@bozzalad | 21 August 17 |
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@ bozzalad - 21.08.17 - 05:37pm that seems mostly to depend if the main parent gets benefits as in the more that the absent parent pays the less the state has to pay |
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@birdy | 21 August 17 |
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@ bozzalad - 21.08.17 - 05:39pm as in the more that the absent parent pays the less the state has to pay So a parent on benefits would prefer a private agreement so they don't lose out you mean? You can agree to agree on the amount specified by them or come to your own arrangements perhaps. |
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@bozzalad | 21 August 17 |
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@ birdy - 21.08.17 - 05:42pm So a parent on benefits would prefer a private agreement so they don't lose out you mean? You can agree to agree on the amount specified by them or come to your own arrangements perhaps. no, the person on benefits would not have a choice |
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@birdy | 21 August 17 |
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@ bozzalad - 21.08.17 - 05:42pm no, the person on benefits would not have a choice Oh right  Well yeah, that kinda makes sense.
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@bozzalad | 21 August 17 |
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@ birdy - 21.08.17 - 05:44pm Oh right Well yeah, that kinda makes sense.it is about saving the state money never even heard of em giving much of a toss if the main parent doesn't claim anything |
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@birdy | 21 August 17 |
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128 to 237 nights a year is considered shared care here.
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