Difference between what ? A passive aggressive note and a normal aggressive note ?

sometimes sheepishness can come across as harsher than intended.

I haven't really thought about stuff like this. Housemates would leave notes all the time in our shared student house, and most times it was just being considerate to follow them. If it was something stupid, you just ignore it entirely until they approach you, I guess.

I forgot to close the stove a few times and the next time I came around; there was a note that said; 'turn off the fu*king stove or we will get burned to death'
But I am not sure if that qualifies as being passive aggressive.

R they threatening u?

that wouldn't be that passive

I can't stand cowardice. It's uncivil and rude.

Go to the door, be exceptionally polite and clear the issue. They always sh*t themselves and relent

You can't do that conveniently if you share a house with multiple people or everyone has varying schedules and thus can hardly meet face to face on the same days. Putting notes up is rather handy.

Burn them in front of the authors face.

Living with peers is different

What do the notes say?

Return the favour!

Basically telling me to park in a different spot in the street, because they have multiple cars and need to park there.
Also, its the street, parking is first come first serve. If I come home and theres someone parked in the street, I just go park out the back. The street is massive and hardly anyone parks in it, but multiple people seem to think they all need to park outside my window

Wrong way around.

Burn the note-writing titbag in front of the notes.

I'd simply ignore, then wait for a confrontation.

'Howdy neighbourino.
I received your note about the street parking problem.
As I am a reasonable person.
I am currently working on growing a big fat dick for you to suck.
Buy a garage fuckface
Thanks, zonino'

sh*t on their doorstep