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@terence56 | |
I've been on this site for many years. I've noticed that different perceived rules apply here...l was called rude yesterday for sending a bud request. This is a chat site. Buddy requests are one of the prime tools of communication here. I've looked at many profiles who have statements of the ilk. With a general statement saying don't contact me..meaning anyone...l realise people can do and say anything they want. But l thought this was a chat site?? |
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@3mel | 18 May 23 |
some people do their chatting in the chat rooms or here in forums. it's not rude to bud them unless they have clearly asked that you don't.
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@foxigalx | 18 May 23 |
I did call you rude for making the assumption that I would accept your very random bud request. Considering we have never spoken before, no inbox to say hi can we be buds. Therefore it was rejected. Its peoples personal preference whether they accept random buds or not, my profile says do not bud. Would have thought that was a tell tale sign I dont want buds.
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@alanball | 18 May 23 |
Should of known it would be you
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@1clivey1 | 18 May 23 |
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@foxigalx | 18 May 23 |
@ alanball - 18.05.23 - 10:12am Should of known it would be you ![]() |
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@afridi101 | 18 May 23 |
@ foxigalx - 18.05.23 - 08:57am I did call you rude for making the assumption that I would accept your very random bud request. Considering we have never spoken before, no inbox to say hi can we be buds. Therefore it was rejected. Its peoples personal preference whether they accept random buds or not, my profile says do not bud. Would have thought that was a tell tale sign I dont want buds. I did ask you very politely in inbox last night if we can be buds again but you totaly ignored it(didlike) Didn't even bother reply back!! |
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@afridi101 | 18 May 23 |
Didlike ![]() |
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@foxigalx | 18 May 23 |
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@afridi101 | 18 May 23 |
Very Un-fair!! Good post by terence this
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@foxigalx | 18 May 23 |
Unfair because I dont want you as a bud? Its my choice who I have as buds and Ive said no so accept it like a man and move on.
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@alanball | 18 May 23 |
@ afridi101 - 18.05.23 - 11:28am I did ask you very politely in inbox last night if we can be buds again but you totaly ignored it(didlike) Didn't even bother reply back!! Very rude to ignore ![]() |
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@foxigalx | 18 May 23 |
@ alanball - 18.05.23 - 11:38am Very rude to ignore ![]() I dont have to respond to every message i get. I can be ignorant people should know this and get over it ![]() |
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@terence56 | 18 May 23 |
There are polite and friendly ways to express negative feelings then there is the unpleasant way...it is clear which is your preference
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@afridi101 | 18 May 23 |
Foxi's the sweetest person on here guys was jus joking
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@foxigalx | 18 May 23 |
@ afridi101 - 18.05.23 - 11:42am Foxi's the sweetest person on here guys was jus joking ![]() |
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@foxigalx | 18 May 23 |
@ terence56 - 18.05.23 - 11:40am There are polite and friendly ways to express negative feelings then there is the unpleasant way...it is clear which is your preference Judging by words on a screen? Ok if you say so. |
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@alanball | 18 May 23 |
@ terence56 - 18.05.23 - 11:40am There are polite and friendly ways to express negative feelings then there is the unpleasant way...it is clear which is your preference Get it sh*gged Terry lad |
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@terence56 | 18 May 23 |
By what other measure do l have to evaluate?
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@afridi101 | 18 May 23 |
Ask alan for help/tips!!
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@ogdenz | 18 May 23 |
Send her some virtual flowers and chocolates. |
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