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@3mel | 18 August 14 | |
stop looking at your boyfriend thru the eyes of love and need, see what's really there, and decide for the sake of your happiness as opposed to a fear of being alone...
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@o..o | 18 August 14 | |
@ peta - 18.08.14 - 03:44am It depends on your relationship. Each relationship is unique. Everybody makes mistakes or rather poor choices sometimes. People deserve a second chance. If people are competent enough they will know if they are being taken for advantage or not as opposed to forgiving/negotiating and moving forward and rebuilding whatever was broken. It's a personal judgement call, and it's yours. Couldn't agree more with you peta. Before actually being in this position,I had the same viewpoint as baz,but life is not black and white,its mostly the shades of grey in between. Yes its hard to regain trust,its hard to get over and very difficult to even accept,but if your relationship is something of value,then its worth trying to work through and move forward. You both need to be on the same page though. |
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@birdy | 18 August 14 | |
I'd feed him to the komodos.
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@stormy | 18 August 14 | |
I think we all deserve second chances, but only if he is remorseful, and feels terrible for cheating on u. If not then It will really be hard to move on. Best of luck to u.
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@newt182 | 18 August 14 | |
If you have been cheated on once, it will most likely happen again. Second time is easier.
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@willow3 | 18 August 14 | |
What are you giving them a chance at? Who in their right mind would choose to live in doubt?
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@lightbulb | 18 August 14 | |
stab them
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@propidol | 18 August 14 | |
Women lie and you can't trust them. It's a simple fact of life and you are a fool to ever forget it.
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@mandain | 18 August 14 | |
@ birdy - 18.08.14 - 04:31am I'd feed him to the komodos. That's gonna cost a trip to Indonesia as well |
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@rose01 | 18 August 14 | |
I was just thinking..if he cheated on you and wants to get back..that would mean that the cheat thing didnt work out (or was just a fling on the side?) and hes been let down too and learnt a lesson (or two or if it was just a fling, its how it was meant to be) Sorry- I'v lost track (dunno how mikey does those mammoth replies without losing track) So like what i mean is he will think twice before doing it again..if u get what i mean..so take it from there ..aaargh i cant write anymore |
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