he became distant,outbursts of anger towards her,his personality totally changed.. he became a shadow of his former self. my niece is finding it hard to cope with him these days n not wanting to go anywhere. she does have support off her family but they cant be there for her all the time.. havs anyone else gone through something similar,where after an illness or accident,their partner changes so dramatically?

So sorry 2 hear that babe. Any chance of then sorting things out

*havs = has

hope so wolves,u know bad stuff always happens to the gud people.

It sure does. And h8 2 say it he like that then she betta off with out him. It nt rite 4 her having 2 try and cope with him

why give up on someone u love tho? just cos somethings broken,doesnt mean it cant be mended

But does he kno wat he doing tho

he does but says he's sorry he cant help it me personally,i dont think he got enough after care from the hospital, somethings not right

As any1 said 2 him bout getting help. Him saying sorry all the tym nt gd enough. How long he been like this 4 x

Am sorry cat i know the score in similar cir tances. I hope he can get extra help n they can work it out . Must be a living nitemare 4ur niece

the accident has affected his brain

yeah,but help from where wolves? thanks yido,can u talk about wat happened?

There must b help out there sumwhere dnt kno where wish i cud help x

he's had a scan but showed nothing, richeet

if he can admit that there's a problem and wants to resolve it, then there's a chance they can work things out.

Have they tryed doing stuff which they injoyed doing 2 geather try and refresh is memory x

wish i cud too wolves, all ive been able to do so far is get them to talk instead of just blanking each other

If there talking then that a start

he knows mr bear,he just cant stop things from happening, wolves, he's not forgotten stuff its his drastic mood swings thats the concern hun