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Back in the day when Grindr didn't exist, I met this guy on Romeo. I went on a few dates with him. We were a great match. He wanted to marry me. Then over a couple of weeks, he changed. In the sense that he talked to me less, and texted me less. It was like texting a totally different person. And when I checked his FB, I noticed the delete. He even removed me from FB. But he was too good to let go without finding out why so I inboxed him, and he was like I got married, I didn't wanna hurt your feelings, I'm stopping communication with all my Romeo contacts, I wanna focus on my married life  That happened about 5 years ago. But once a queen, always a queen, right? He messaged me on Grindr a while back. He wants to pick up from where he left off when everything was good. Is his wife out-of-town or what? I'm just curious. Is he still married? Should I ask him that? Lol In my shoes, what would you do? Reply or leave it? As you can probably tell from this question, I am bored. |
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@3mel | 11 May 17 |
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just think of the humiliation and embarrassment his wife will feel  go for it...
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@tazdevil | 11 May 17 |
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He has probably messaged me after all these years to try and have a bonk bonk with me. I'm very in tune with what's going on. Best thing is I'll have a final say this time if he turns out to be a rat.
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@crail | 11 May 17 |
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I've come to the conclusion you are a queen
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@crail | 11 May 17 |
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Marry him. He's clearly ready for peen again
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@terrydactyl | 11 May 17 |
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Let him bu m you into next week. Then call him a slag and walk away..or waddle away.
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@tazdevil | 11 May 17 |
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@ crail - 11.05.17 - 01:01am I've come to the conclusion you are a queen You're only discovering this about me now? 
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@tazdevil | 11 May 17 |
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It's interesting when a person wants to come back into your life after they've done or did something bad, and just think that they can pick up where they left off when things were good, but they forget the bad stuff they did or said. I mean, he didn't do or say anything bad to me as such, but he must think I am easy to just forget nothing happened.
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@crail | 11 May 17 |
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@ terrydactyl - 11.05.17 - 01:08am Let him bu m you into next week. Then call him a slag and walk away..or waddle away. Then he waddled away, waddle waddle waddle. till the very next day, bom bom bom bom bom bom bom |
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@crail | 11 May 17 |
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@ tazdevil - 11.05.17 - 01:30am It's interesting when a person wants to come back into your life after they've done or did something bad, and just think that they can pick up where they left off when things were good, but they forget the bad stuff they did or said. I mean, he didn't do or say anything bad to me as such, but he must think I am easy to just forget nothing happened. This is my mum |
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@phallica | 11 May 17 |
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Ask him if he's still married and if he is, see if he finds it unconscionable that he's been using her as a beard while (I'm assuming because he's on Grindr) having casual sex with other men.
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@mikeymk | 11 May 17 |
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Why don't you just ask him? You moan he never messaged you, did you message him? That's a long post but how are we supposed to know what you had between you... that said, you were vibing, and he then went and cut you out and married someone. That'd be a bit of a deal-breaker for me. Don't think I'd be going back down that road. You are weird, Taz...
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@tazdevil | 11 May 17 |
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I did message him. On many occasions. On FB, BBM, WhatsApp. I would give a nice casual space of time before every text, and he would reply to most of my texts, but there were fewer texts from his side. It just felt different. So I stopped making efforts thereafter because the more you seem to do it, the more they seem to pull away. I've learnt through bitter experiences  I think yeah, it was partially my own crazy. I don't make connections easily but when I do, it's very much 100 percent. |
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@tazdevil | 11 May 17 |
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@ phallica - 11.05.17 - 01:50am Ask him if he's still married and if he is, see if he finds it unconscionable that he's been using her as a beard while (I'm assuming because he's on Grindr) having casual sex with other men. Okay, he's online now so I'm gonna ask him that to get his story. Curious to see what he replies lol |
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@birdy | 11 May 17 |
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@ tazdevil - 11.05.17 - 01:30am It's interesting when a person wants to come back into your life after they've done or did something bad, and just think that they can pick up where they left off when things were good, but they forget the bad stuff they did or said. I mean, he didn't do or say anything bad to me as such, but he must think I am easy to just forget nothing happened. When people expect that it generally means they don't think they did anything wrong to begin with. I'd leave it, or he'll just think he can do what he wants with you when it suits him. |
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@birdy | 11 May 17 |
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Oops too late. 
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@birdy | 11 May 17 |
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OK do what phal said lol
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@birdy | 11 May 17 |
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Make sure you say the beard thing
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@tazdevil | 11 May 17 |
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Okay, so I asked him and he replied just now. He's still married and claims to be 'loyal' to his wife. I said why are you on a gay f*ck app then? He said just looking for friends lol yeah yeah, of course Guess he has a revised definition of loyal. Lie-yalty coins be word for that 
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@mikeymk | 11 May 17 |
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Maybe he doesn't know if it's a 'fk app'. Some have even claimed Pro to be, i know my ex thought so just before we split up... I'll avoid dating sites or anything renowned for it but... ...i didn't know what Grindr was until i just Googled it - yeah, scrap that, it's blatantly a fk site
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@birdy | 11 May 17 |
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Taz is this the guy that didn't even want to marry the woman but did it for his family? That'd be why he's still looking for di ck lol
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