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Guys, remember that 'negative friend' I posted about last time? Well, she is psychotic. She has a victim mentality. For several days, she kept posting crazy statuses on WhatsApp every now and then like: I'm giving up, death please come to me, I don't want to be alive etc. I tried giving her comfort/reassurance along with a combination of empathy, compassion and commiseration, but she completely rejected these options each time. So I started avoiding her calls/texts to 'protect' myself from the surfeit of negativity. When she found out I've distanced myself, she started creating fights and guilt-tripping me. Bad bad energy. A while ago, she FAKED a suicide attempt. She posted a knife picture on WhatsApp, and captioned it 'I'm done. Goodbye world' My heart sank and fell out of my f*cking @ss, dude. I called her up, but no answer. She texted me just now saying she was cooking maggi wtf. I asked her if she was alright, and she said what? I'm confused? I said giirrrllll, and she was like what happened? I was SO annoyed. It is manipulation of the highest sort to tell someone you're going to kill yourself. I confronted her about it, and she called me a gay freak  I blocked her 'poor me' @ss. Now I can't help, but feel bad. Is this normal? I don't understand why I feel this way. |
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@crail | 16 February 19 |
 you got mugged there. Nothing can help these kind of people
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@crail | 16 February 19 |
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But you are a gay freak
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@tazdevil | 16 February 19 |
 That's me! A gay freak X
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@tazdevil | 16 February 19 |
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Mikey was right :/ She's a compulsive victim with a bit of fantasist and attention seeker thrown in.
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@3mel | 16 February 19 |
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wow what a tosspot
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@dan27notts | 16 February 19 |
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Sounds like she's got a personality disorder
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@tasti2 | 16 February 19 |
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Mental health issues try and get her help
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@glitabug | 16 February 19 |
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Don't be afraid to cut her off to protect yourself. Ultimately, Your own mental health matters more than hers
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@glitabug | 16 February 19 |
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Don't be afraid to cut her off to protect yourself. Ultimately, Your own mental health matters more than hers
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@crail | 16 February 19 |
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@ tasti2 - 16.02.19 - 11:42pm Mental health issues try and get her help You can lead a horse to water, but you can't make it drink |
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@tazdevil | 17 February 19 |
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I've tried my best, and I realized that she's just an emotional vampire with a victim complex/mentality. If she REALLY wanted to overcome trauma in her life, she would seek help/support and not reject it when offered. There's a difference between 'playing the victim' and actually being one. Most true victims want to heal, and move away from the pain of being a victim. They abhor pity. But emotional vampires like her do not want to change or stop being a victim. They enjoy throwing a pity party. |
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@tazdevil | 17 February 19 |
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She spent no time on self-improvement or problem solving during the hiatus of our friendship because she enjoys things being bad so she can play 'victim' At some point, it becomes apparent that someone wallows in woe because that's their personality or perversely, they actually prefer that mindset. |
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@freshdeadlyroses | 17 February 19 |
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There's so many bi**hes like this in the world. Just run.
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@tazdevil | 17 February 19 |
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Yes, I think that's the best thing to do  I do feel kinda bad tho, not gonna lie. I don't understand why I feel this way. But I was doing fine without her in my life so I will be okay I guess lol
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@trashy | 17 February 19 |
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Can I skip this episode? I wanna watch the one where Sid scalps a bi**h 
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@sisfreak2017 | 17 February 19 |
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people are different , just try to put up with what your comfortable with.
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@slick_01 | 17 February 19 |
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@ tazdevil - 16.02.19 - 10:30pm Guys, remember that 'negative friend' I posted about last time? Well, she is psychotic. She has a victim mentality. For several days, she kept posting crazy statuses on WhatsApp every now and then like: I'm giving up, death please come to me, I don't want to be alive etc. I tried giving her comfort/reassurance along with a combination of empathy, compassion and commiseration, but she completely rejected these options each time. So I started avoiding her calls/texts to 'protect' myself from the surfeit of negativity. When she found out I've distanced myself, she started creating fights and guilt-tripping me. Bad bad energy. A while ago, she FAKED a suicide attempt. She posted a knife picture on WhatsApp, and captioned it 'I'm done. Goodbye world' My heart sank and fell out of my f*cking @ss, dude. I called her up, but no answer. She texted me just now saying she was cooking maggi wtf. I asked her if she was alright, and she said what? I'm confused? I said giirrrllll, and she was like what happened? I was SO annoyed. It is manipulation of the highest sort to tell someone you're going to kill yourself. I confronted her about it, and she called me a gay freak I blocked her 'poor me' @ss. Now I can't help, but feel bad. Is this normal? I don't understand why I feel this way. It seems most of your friends are fkd up? 
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@3mel | 17 February 19 |
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@ tazdevil - 17.02.19 - 12:00am I've tried my best, and I realized that she's just an emotional vampire with a victim complex/mentality. If she REALLY wanted to overcome trauma in her life, she would seek help/support and not reject it when offered. There's a difference between 'playing the victim' and actually being one. Most true victims want to heal, and move away from the pain of being a victim. They abhor pity. But emotional vampires like her do not want to change or stop being a victim. They enjoy throwing a pity party. if she grew up in a bad home environment she might never have learned ''how to have feelings'' in what we'd call a normal way. if that's the case she won't change without help. if this seems to fit, whether you're buddies again or not, you might want her to hear that concept. leave her to put the rest together herself that she maybe has an issue that has a developmental cause (as opposed to trauma). |
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@zombiekiller | 17 February 19 |
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@ freshdeadlyroses - 17.02.19 - 12:24am There's so many bi**hes like this in the world. Just run.  best advice
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@tazdevil | 17 February 19 |
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@ trashy - 17.02.19 - 01:06am Can I skip this episode? I wanna watch the one where Sid scalps a bi**h Stay tuned 
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