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ok from the start can i add that i'm neither after any attention or sympathy just your opinion, last wednesday my mom went into hospital to have a valve in her heart replaced (shes doing ok saw her this afternoon).. however over the weekend one of my aunts has suffered a major stroke and tbh things aren't looking good, now both me and my brother have decided to withhold this info until she's been discharged because we don't want to put her under any undue stress, but can't help but feel s** |
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@mikeymk | 10 August 15 |
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Fair enough, but don't let her find out otherwise..
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@smokeyb | 10 August 15 |
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s**tty about not telling her ... would you in similar position do as we have done?
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@mz.c | 10 August 15 |
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I think you should tell your mum especially as you say things aren't looking good. Sorry your family is going through a hard time. 
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@dre4mz | 10 August 15 |
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Might do her more damage you keeping it from her.I'd tell her about the stroke but i'd omit how bad it is,Just to prepare her etc.Good luck and hope your mum gets well soon.
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@sillyxx | 10 August 15 |
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Tough situation but need to put yourself in your mums place and would you want to know? Only you know your mum and how she will handle not being told. Don't want to sound mean but if something happened to your aunt and your mum didn't get to say goodbye?  hope they are both on the mend soonies
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@phallica | 10 August 15 |
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I'd keep it from her if her finding out caused a dangerous amount of stress.
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@trashy | 10 August 15 |
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I think if there's a chance she might not make it I'd tell her
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@mikeymk | 10 August 15 |
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On the flip side, if it's serious, and if they're sisters, then i don't think time has a place between them. Especially if it's not on their side.
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@peta | 10 August 15 |
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I'm sure too much stress is not good and you're both thinking about her wellbeing. I think withholding the information is the best thing to do. Just do so as soon as you see fit, so just in she may need to say bye.. Good luck.
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@poppers | 10 August 15 |
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Mom?
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