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@leggys11 | 3 July 14 | |
@ john4eva - 3.07.14 - 10:00am That brillant the law cos it not a crime asking advice court dismiss!! Now I'm confused ??? She is asking for advice...the pupil confided ???? |
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@guyver | 3 July 14 | |
@tinydude | 3 July 14 | |
I think it's pretty responsible asking people in a forum, which has people with wider reaching experience than friends might have. Obviously with the internet you have to ignore quite a few of the people who don't know what they're talking about and just want to criticise and argue for the sake of arguing, but there have been some useful answers too |
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@tinydude | 3 July 14 | |
there are too many dramatic people here there's no confidentiality clause, and there's no way this girl is, or should be, bound to keep this to herself to burden her, distract her from what she is there for, and make her worry about alone. She's a teacher not a counselor, and isn't trained or paid for that. Lighten up drama club |
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@candiee | 3 July 14 | |
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Too many people want to kill themselves now. What could be the cause of this?
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@tinydude | 3 July 14 | |
Guyver
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@candiee | 3 July 14 | |
What's the point of private and confidential when you have no solution to the private and confidential problem at hand? There's nothing wrong with asking for help online! Sheesh very dramatic people here.
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@silverjx | 3 July 14 | |
@ d0peyy - 2.07.14 - 09:53pm Ok this is a bit weird. I teach IT to young people aged 16-18 and recently one of the young boys has been confiding in me saying that's he's depressed n has no one to talk to etc. there was an incident 2 weeks ago where we had to take him to AE cus he said he wanted to kill himself. Since then he's been seeing a psychiatrist n doesn't seem as bad but still looks to talk to me everyday. Today he told me he feels like it's an obsession that he needs to talk to me everyday n described it as transference or something. I've told him he needs to stop depending on me so much etc but what else can I do now? Bearing in mind I have to teach him everyday. Try to wean him away from you and get him to go on support/advice/user forums on the net which his used by the people who are kind of in the same situation as him, he'd hopefully ''click'' with some of them and a weight be lifted because he'll identify with some. Make it sound positive as possible (ooo some nice lasses use it etc) ..would help him a lot as long as its not a suicide cult site..but might what he needs people his own age been the same and give him hope etc. Plus won't leave you feeling guilty and stuck what to do |
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@tinydude | 3 July 14 | |
What about if she just kept it to herself because she didn't know what to do, and he jumped off a bridge, and she felt it was her who failed him, even though she was never in a position to help him, is that a better solution? Wouldn't the same naysayers be tutting that she didn't seek help and advice when she thought he needed it? Never mind how much that would traumatise her, all for the sake of an imaginery confidentially clause that someone on pro has decided has come into effect Burn her at the stake |
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@tinydude | 3 July 14 | |
No good deed goes unpunished
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