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If your spouse you love so much has certain bad character traits, would you marry them with the intension of changing them after marriage or would you change them before getting married, what if so stubborn that you could loose them? |
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@arizonaf | 9 January 17 | |
Depends on the bad personality traits.
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@arizonaf | 9 January 17 | |
You shouldn't marry to change them anyway.
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@3mel | 9 January 17 | |
what is it with African guys having doom laden relationship issues always on their minds ? is it the twisted remnants of valuing wisdom ? if they have traits that you couldn't ever accept from the outset it's not actually that much of a loss is it... |
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@wickedwitch | 9 January 17 | |
Ive got sense i dont do marriage
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@funphy | 9 January 17 | |
Electrified nipple clamps can really aid with behavioural programming.
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@birdy | 9 January 17 | |
No one's perfect. Take the bad with the good and learn to compromise. Unless they sh*t in the sink or something. If I 'love them so much' though, it can't be that bad. lol
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@easybud1 | 9 January 17 | |
@ 3mel - 9.01.17 - 09:28am what is it with African guys having doom laden relationship issues always on their minds ? is it the twisted remnants of valuing wisdom ? if they have traits that you couldn't ever accept from the outset it's not actually that much of a loss is it... we African guys honour and value marriages a lot, we are mostly family oriented. |
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@ladibud | 9 January 17 | |
@ easybud1 - 9.01.17 - 09:24am If your spouse you love so much has certain bad character traits, would you marry them with the intension of changing them after marriage or would you change them before getting married, what if so stubborn that you could loose them? I would learn to live with them or leave him. trying to change someone just makes both miserable. |
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@peta | 9 January 17 | |
You can't change someone, they can only truly change if they want to. With that said, if there are undesirable characteristics I've noticed then there won't be a wedding. |
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@mz.c | 9 January 17 | |
Depends what their bad trait is tbh
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