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Guys, I met someone through Gr today and he made a really bad first impression. He did and said some things that really irked me. I honestly couldn't imagine myself with him. When I got back home, he texted me saying he had a wonderful time and that he found me sweet, funny and interesting. He also said he's looking forward to meet me AGAIN and wants to take me out to dinner, and wrote 'love ya' at the end. Jesus Christ lol I thought maybe he wanted to redeem himself or something so I was like okay. I'm a pretty forgiving soul (plus there's nothing better than a free meal) so I said okay, I'll meet you and we'll go out to have dinner. And then he called up, and he turned out to be the MOST perverted guy. At the end of the phonecall, he alluded that he would like to get into my pants. Now I would rather not meet him. If you're unsure about someone's intentions, do you give them a second date? How can I politely decline tomorrow's date? I can't exactly say dude, you creep me out  |
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@dan27notts | 4 November 17 |
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No one wants to hear it
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@ogdenz | 4 November 17 |
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I'm not reading all that.However had it been written in smaller sections I may well have read it. Go figure.
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@wickedwitch | 4 November 17 |
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Just let him in your pants.
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@crail | 4 November 17 |
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I'd tell him to go shave his arse
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@psnality | 4 November 17 |
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Free dinner, then say sorry but we don't click.
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@sisfreak2017 | 4 November 17 |
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cut out the Grindr middleman TAZ phillwin's already on prodigits
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@prattle | 4 November 17 |
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Perverted was he? Like emailing pictures of your c0ck to your old college professor from a fake profile?
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@tazdevil | 4 November 17 |
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Details: He made a bad first impression by- 1) Telling me he's married and has kids. 2) Correcting my English. Like when I told him I had quitted smoking, he argued with me and told me 'quitted' wasn't a word. F*cking grammar n*zi. 3) Correcting me when I pronounced 'dilemma' as di-lay-ma, and not dee-lay-ma. 4) Acting like know-it-all. 5) Asking me (during the date) if I wanted to have sex when we had already decided beforehand that we wouldn't engage in anything sexual. 6) Grabbing my b*tt when we kissed (but I have to say, that kiss was good. It made me reconsider giving him a second date) |
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@tazdevil | 4 November 17 |
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And then that phonecall - it made me uncomfortable. Every time I spoke about something or mentioned a word, he would make some innuendo or twist it into a sexual word followed by 'let's meet soon so we can actually do it. Just kidding' I have just a small amount of information with which to work but based on that, here's my perception: Although I think he's a nice lad, one who seemed helpful and supportive, he's MAYBE (I cannot know) trying to foster this friendship and acting all nicey nicey with the aim and hope of receiving a bl*wjob. I'm really unsure, and don't want a second date. And I'm bad at rejecting requests. And I had already said yes when we were texting each other. F*ck. I want to politely decline without seeming cold/mean so can y'all please help me instead of roasting me? |
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@psnality | 4 November 17 |
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Do you talk this much about yourself on dates?
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