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Just moved in with our lass and to say her parents aren't happy is an understatement. They won't talk to her and think I'm using her as she has a nice house and car etc and I'm basically a carer for my 85 year old Dad and only have a council flat. She was in a violent 9 year marriage with some drunk and I'm not exactly a saint but never have and never would touch a woman let alone someone I've fallen for. From what I gather they sound like stuck up snobs who aren't even willing to meet me. I feel like getting in touch and telling them to fu*k off, she's 34 not 16 but obviously wouldn't be that stupid. She's met my family and my dog loves her too and just don't get how these so called parents of hers could be so cruel. Anyone on here had similar problems? |
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@piggle | 7 May 19 |
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Ehh apply some communication and resolution? but I mean if you're no up to speed with those life skills by now then maybe it's a Jeremy Kyle and Graham job
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@arsed | 7 May 19 |
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I've asked to meet them but it's not happening. Do you like to insult people behind a screen or are you just mentally challenged?
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@tasti2 | 7 May 19 |
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Didnt read all that post got bored
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@cleancut | 7 May 19 |
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Never had that problem but if I were you I'd just get on with it and prove them wrong, get a ring on her finger asap then if it goes t*ts up at least you've got half of her house.
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@cleancut | 7 May 19 |
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best of luck to you both. If it doesn't work out send her my way. Her parents would love me.
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@piggle | 7 May 19 |
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Right well what you wanting, sympathy? You sound about 17
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@phallica | 7 May 19 |
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Yes yes but what's the dog's name?
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@3mel | 8 May 19 |
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@ arsed - 7.05.19 - 11:04pm Just moved in with our lass and to say her parents aren't happy is an understatement. They won't talk to her and think I'm using her as she has a nice house and car etc and I'm basically a carer for my 85 year old Dad and only have a council flat. She was in a violent 9 year marriage with some drunk and I'm not exactly a saint but never have and never would touch a woman let alone someone I've fallen for. From what I gather they sound like stuck up snobs who aren't even willing to meet me. I feel like getting in touch and telling them to fu*k off, she's 34 not 16 but obviously wouldn't be that stupid. She's met my family and my dog loves her too and just don't get how these so called parents of hers could be so cruel. Anyone on here had similar problems? you've got to play the long game. remind yourself you're not after her money, you actually like her and that's what matters. take some deep breaths and try and let it go. encourage her to stay in contact and even go see them without you. she's the one having this bad not you. she's the one needing the support from you. in the fullness of time a family event will crop up that they can't uninvite you from. it would be better to turn up as the guy they were totally wrong about and graciously tell them to forget about it and not to worry, again because it's not your family but someone you care about's family. |
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@freshdeadlyroses | 8 May 19 |
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Her parents sound like a**holes, not sure she's missing out on much there.
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@freshdeadlyroses | 8 May 19 |
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I don't understand parents that stop talking to their kids for dumb reasons. I find it irritating.
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