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@sweetcaroline | |
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All I'm asking of people is 2 have respect 4 other people as this unfortunately happens 2 everybody.it's not designed 2 upset anybody it's just an awkward situation 2 discuss |
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@vamp.boy25x | 30 May 19 |
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It's not awkward at all, completely natural. What happened? Is everything okay from your side?
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@sweetcaroline | 30 May 19 |
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I lost my dad 23/11/89 he was buried a week later and unfortunately also my mum on my daughters birthday 10/4/2019. My mum bless her things wasn't straightforward she had 2 have a post mortem it took 5 weeks and 5 days 20/5 2 bury her.I had the hospital and the funeral parlour advising me 2 keep her coffin closed as my mum has sadly deteriorated
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@vamp.boy25x | 30 May 19 |
 I'm sorry about what you are going through. I can't even comprehend how difficult these past few months must have been for you. Please stay strong and keep going.RIP to your mom and dad. |
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@vamp.boy25x | 30 May 19 |
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Feel free to leave me an inbox if you need someone to talk to.
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@sisfreak2017 | 30 May 19 |
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You never get over loosing a loved one and why should you. Like the idiom 'time is a great healer' suggests and is applicable to numerous things. Grief will get easier with time. |
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@gammyknee | 30 May 19 |
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My fella died in bed beside me 22 months ago, suddenly and unexpectedly, after major surgery for bowel cancer. His cancer was gone. Nobody expected him to die. He was cured and had started chemo three days before as a preventative measure. He took our dog for a walk at 11.30pm. By 12.10am he'd died beside me. I probably would've hidden away from talking about death before this happened. I probably didn't understand grief..... Life is a silly old journey. And the more we travel, the more we learn, and the more we talk. Its all good. Eventually. I honestly don't believe, from experience, that grief gets easier. It just feels different as time moves on.
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@mikeymk | 30 May 19 |
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People die, all the time. It's rarely your problem but the closer they are to you, the bigger a hole they leave behind. I fill that with a summary of why they were there. What they stood for, what i learnt from them. And i can then keep my focus on those still here. They're not permanent either. |
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@1clivey1 | 30 May 19 |
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ive lost both my parents now its devastating at first with time it gets easier but allways stays with you was especially hard for me as an only child i think of them every day at some point of the day but life goes on knowing they were the best
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@iilmadme | 30 May 19 |
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@ sweetcaroline - 30.05.19 - 09:12pm I lost my dad 23/11/89 he was buried a week later and unfortunately also my mum on my daughters birthday 10/4/2019. My mum bless her things wasn't straightforward she had 2 have a post mortem it took 5 weeks and 5 days 20/5 2 bury her.I had the hospital and the funeral parlour advising me 2 keep her coffin closed as my mum has sadly deteriorated I am so sorry,i cant bear the thought of losing a parent xx
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@iilmadme | 30 May 19 |
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@ gammyknee - 30.05.19 - 09:46pm My fella died in bed beside me 22 months ago, suddenly and unexpectedly, after major surgery for bowel cancer. His cancer was gone. Nobody expected him to die. He was cured and had started chemo three days before as a preventative measure. He took our dog for a walk at 11.30pm. By 12.10am he'd died beside me. I probably would've hidden away from talking about death before this happened. I probably didn't understand grief..... Life is a silly old journey. And the more we travel, the more we learn, and the more we talk. Its all good. Eventually. I honestly don't believe, from experience, that grief gets easier. It just feels different as time moves on. I lost my partner to bowel cancer nearly four years ago.also my previous partner in his sleep.inbox me if you would like to talk xx
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