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@gremlinpickledgizzy | 17 February 20 | |
my dad died in October just gone, I've been grieving for him of course because of feelings, my mum died 4 years ago. both have been hard to come to terms with but they'll live on inside me because i was part of each of them. same as if you lose a non family member, they always live on inside you inside your heart and memories!
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@corpse81 | 17 February 20 | |
@ dan27notts - 17.02.20 - 09:37am If it continually affects you to the extent where it impacts on your day to day life then that is what will class it as a disorder. This. I understand there are five stages one could go through. People grieve differently though. Take as much time as you have to, and seek for some help if you must. Youre the only one who know and understand yourself better than anyone else. |
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@xivanax | 18 February 20 | |
It do get easier but never leaves ya.
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@mz.c | 18 February 20 | |
You dont ever forget you just live your life the best you can without them
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@sisfreak2017 | 18 February 20 | |
It never leaves and why should it. Hopefully you wouldn't want to just forget that person. We just learn to live with it.
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@birdy | 18 February 20 | |
Someone not existing anymore is a huge thing. I don't think you should put pressure on yourself to stop feeling any kind of way. You said yourself, it isn't every day anymore. That's progress, and seems to show that you are already getting somewhere, if you do if fact have prolonged grief disorder. I say already, because six years isn't even a long time in my eyes. What Mikey said about living how they would want you to, and so that you can honor them in a world they are no longer in, is a good place to start, maybe then the way you feel will start to change. It's worth a try. Your life is still there to be lived.
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@1tel | 18 February 20 | |
Wow.Thanks alot guys for the pieces of advice.I will never forget my Mum.
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@sisfreak2017 | 18 February 20 | |
@ 1tel - 18.02.20 - 02:23pm Wow.Thanks alot guys for the pieces of advice.I will never forget my Mum. Regarding our own Mothers: Nor should any of us. |
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@jiggyxx | 20 February 20 | |
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I lost my dad 32 years ago this year.
The grief still sometimes knocks me sideways and I suppose it always will. I read something about grief being like the ocean, sometimes it is calm and sometimes it is like a tsunami, hitting you with full force. |
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@birdy | 25 February 20 | |
Bumped for junejok.
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