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@iilmadme | 30 June 22 | |
Over a span of 2 months is some sort of thing though?
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@peta | 30 June 22 | |
@ fick - 30.06.22 - 07:42am First of all lucky him and secondly you should.mention it especially since it was all.quite innocent x It will only come out later and that'll be a lot.worse if.you don't just mention it now!! Lol, yes, yes he is. But ya, I agree with you on cover it so no big secrets in the future. |
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@iilmadme | 30 June 22 | |
I mentioned to my bf that me n a mutual friend had a sort of thing for a month or so that never amounted to anything as soon as his name came up between us..oh yeah,thingy...i nearly got together with him but it never really happened because of such n such.love him to bits,though. It would be weird to blurt it out now,after we've all had dinner together n visited eachother etc |
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@peta | 30 June 22 | |
@ mikeymk - 30.06.22 - 01:16pm Why would it ever come out? As an intimate moment it's the business only of you two and nobody else's. Add to that, you have your friendship, which is what it is, and is in no danger of going anywhere else, and that should be respected. Equally, they would have their relationship and you don't need to know all the gory details of what they get up to in the bedroom either. And telling her may put her off, and she won't thank you for pissing on her cornflakes. She more evolved than thinking Im pissing on her cornflakes. While I agree what happened is between us, it is only coming up in the event she expresses further interest. Like I mentioned, Id have liked to have known had I been on the other end, so I can proceed accordingly. Informed decision and all. |
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@peta | 30 June 22 | |
@ iilmadme - 30.06.22 - 02:02pm I mentioned to my bf that me n a mutual friend had a sort of thing for a month or so that never amounted to anything as soon as his name came up between us..oh yeah,thingy...i nearly got together with him but it never really happened because of such n such.love him to bits,though. It would be weird to blurt it out now,after we've all had dinner together n visited eachother etc Understand. They’re kinda diff circumstances tho. |
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@iilmadme | 30 June 22 | |
Yeah,as soon as i realised they have been really good mates since those times i thought my bf should know that i 'dated' his very good friend before they knew eachother
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@peta | 30 June 22 | |
Yea, since its my own cousin maybe thats why I feel I owe her that heads up. Who knows if they get in, maybe hed share that info with her, but Im not relying on him to. Also if they do and he does, she would ask me why I didnt tell her. Im sure. So yea, mind made up depending. |
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@gremlinpickledgizzy | 30 June 22 | |
They way to look at it is, would you tell a close friend what happened in the past, then it shouldn't matter whether it's your cousin or not. I'd tell, shows respect to your cousin and that you're thinking of her feelings
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@trashy | 30 June 22 | |
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I dunno about your cousin, but that would be a deal breaker for me. Don't eat where your friends have shat. Or something
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@mikeymk | 30 June 22 | |
I need to go and tell the boyfriends of a few mates that I've given their birds a tickle. You know, just in case they ever find out and can't handle it.
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