You are not logged in to Prodigits. Please
|
@peta | |
|
So I cant decide if I should just tell my cousin the truth and be transparent with her.. I am leaning towards letting her know so she can decide her course of action as an enlightened person. I dont want to feel like Ive betrayed her with my withholding info. Ok here goes: basically I have a friend from 15 years back, still to this day. Who through me my cousin has met and over time seems to have developed a liking for him. Hes a sweet guy, playful, flirtatious, just overall fun, but has the sweetest heart. However, lately my cousin had asked about our friendship which I explained was platonic, I have love for him and all that over the 15 years of friendship. Fast forward to now, shes telling me that she might actually like him and be willing to try something out with him. The only thing is I wasnt honest in telling her the extent of mine and his history. At that time I didnt think it was necessary, but now she likes him I feel like I should come clean. Basically we kinda got somewhat intimate years back, but never actually slept together. For most people thats nothing, for some it might be a thing. So should I come clean or let it die a silent death? |
||
|
107
Replies
3425
Views
1 Favourites
|
||
Page #: 1/6 |  
|
|
@9362 | 29 June 22 |
|
Let it die, nothing happened
|
||
|
@warded | 29 June 22 |
|
No sex, no problem.
|
||
|
|
@peta | 29 June 22 |
|
Hmm, ok.. easier said than done. There are certain things that he actually knows about me. Like he knows what I look like naked..and not at a glance. Hes seen me seen me nekked. 
|
||
|
|
@warded | 29 June 22 |
|
Even if naked, nothing happened. Right?
|
||
|
@sisfreak2017 | 29 June 22 |
|
You told her the truth. Stop overthinking things. |
||
|
|
@sisfreak2017 | 29 June 22 |
|
@ peta - 29.06.22 - 10:41pm Hmm, ok.. easier said than done. There are certain things that he actually knows about me. Like he knows what I look like naked..and not at a glance. Hes seen me seen me nekked. I've seen my neighbour naked, but I haven't sh*gged her.  Yet. |
||
|
|
@peta | 29 June 22 |
|
Well hes never penetrated me, aka no intercourse, but he sure knows what I smell, taste, feel, sound, look like. Over a span of like 2 months.
|
||
|
|
@peta | 29 June 22 |
|
@ sisfreak2017 - 29.06.22 - 10:44pm You told her the truth. Stop overthinking things. Alright then. That cleared things up. Youre prob right. Lol. |
||
|
@alanball | 29 June 22 |
|
Get him sh*gged
|
||
|
|
@sisfreak2017 | 29 June 22 |
|
@ alanball - 29.06.22 - 11:04pm Get him sh*gged 
|
||
|
@kickinnick | 29 June 22 |
|
Nothing happened, so tell her. How pissed is she gonna be when they eventually sh*g and he's like '' You moan just like your cousin''
|
||
|
|
@peta | 29 June 22 |
|
@ alanball - 29.06.22 - 11:04pm Get him sh*gged I dunno what this means.. |
||
|
|
@peta | 29 June 22 |
|
@ kickinnick - 29.06.22 - 11:08pm Nothing happened, so tell her. How pissed is she gonna be when they eventually sh*g and he's like '' You moan just like your cousin'' Thats what Im saying. Imagine that. 
|
||
|
|
@kickinnick | 29 June 22 |
|
It happened years ago, right? Nothing since. You guys are still friends. Shows he isn't the crazy stalker type, plus, maybe you can give her some pointers. 
|
||
|
@crail | 29 June 22 |
|
@ warded - 29.06.22 - 10:43pm Even if naked, nothing happened. Right? 
|
||
|
|
@peta | 29 June 22 |
|
@ kickinnick - 29.06.22 - 11:17pm It happened years ago, right? Nothing since. You guys are still friends. Shows he isn't the crazy stalker type, plus, maybe you can give her some pointers. Soo, technically yes over like 13 years ago or so, and one tiny relapse earlier this year. No hes not the stalker type, but I also feel like he still wants to be with me. Its weird. In between all these years, hes been married, had two kids, Id been in relationships, dated etc. we still remained great friends. |
||
|
@deusexmachina | 29 June 22 |
|
Lie to her and when they get together then you can fu*k him and then tell her. This I what you want to do.x
|
||
|
@mardy | 29 June 22 |
|
@ peta - 29.06.22 - 11:27pm Soo, technically yes over like 13 years ago or so, and one tiny relapse earlier this year. No hes not the stalker type, but I also feel like he still wants to be with me. Its weird. In between all these years, hes been married, had two kids, Id been in relationships, dated etc. we still remained great friends. Ok so at 1st i was gona say tell her years back something went on but it meant nothing and your mates and thats honesty n shed probably still get to know him, but now u just said it also happened earlier this year and u think he wants to be with u, it just completely changes it and u need to tell her id say , coz she would be pissed to find out and that it was recent i think, plus if u think he wants to be with u would he even want to get with your cousin?? |
||
|
|
@peta | 29 June 22 |
|
@ deusexmachina - 29.06.22 - 11:30pm Lie to her and when they get together then you can fu*k him and then tell her. This I what you want to do.x Lol, evil. Nooo, if I havent fu*ked him in 15 years , now with all this new info- I wont be fu*king him at all. 
|
||
|
|
@peta | 29 June 22 |
|
@ mardy - 29.06.22 - 11:38pm Ok so at 1st i was gona say tell her years back something went on but it meant nothing and your mates and thats honesty n shed probably still get to know him, but now u just said it also happened earlier this year and u think he wants to be with u, it just completely changes it and u need to tell her id say , coz she would be pissed to find out and that it was recent i think, plus if u think he wants to be with u would he even want to get with your cousin?? This is just a bunch I get, we dont really talk about that stuff anymore, until yeah earlier that time. I chalked that one relapse up to possibly just both being available at that time and having had a small history. I plan to speak to him directly about some questions I have I have tho, wanna make sure he can smoothly let all of that all go. |
||
|
|
