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@1bad_boy | 8 May 19 | |
It's the in laws prerogative to hate the new guy. It's up to the new guy to show them hes harmless and has their daughters best interests at heart instead of showing them what an ars*hole he is by calling them to tell them to fk off cause they hurt his feelings |
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@budgiesmuggler | 8 May 19 | |
Invite them over for a nice meal. fu*k their daughter at the table. Never break eye contact with the parents. Works every time |
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@crail | 8 May 19 | |
@ budgiesmuggler - 8.05.19 - 01:41am Invite them over for a nice meal. fu*k their daughter at the table. Never break eye contact with the parents. Works every time Worked with your sister |
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@budgiesmuggler | 8 May 19 | |
@ crail - 8.05.19 - 02:08am Worked with your sister Technically she was still my brother when you did that.. But yes, it worked. |
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@kakasanabaka | 8 May 19 | |
God bless you dear
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@mikeymk | 8 May 19 | |
You don't have to talk to them. Leave them to sulk, enjoy your relationship with your bird.
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@9362 | 8 May 19 | |
You said it yourself, There daughter has just been in a violent 9 year relationship. Naturally they are going to be extremely concerned if she's going to live with somebody after what she's been through
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@ladibud | 8 May 19 | |
@ arsed - 7.05.19 - 11:04pm Just moved in with our lass and to say her parents aren't happy is an understatement. They won't talk to her and think I'm using her as she has a nice house and car etc and I'm basically a carer for my 85 year old Dad and only have a council flat. She was in a violent 9 year marriage with some drunk and I'm not exactly a saint but never have and never would touch a woman let alone someone I've fallen for. From what I gather they sound like stuck up snobs who aren't even willing to meet me. I feel like getting in touch and telling them to fu*k off, she's 34 not 16 but obviously wouldn't be that stupid. She's met my family and my dog loves her too and just don't get how these so called parents of hers could be so cruel. Anyone on here had similar problems? there is nothing you can do. she has just come out of a terrible relationship so it's normal that has parents won't be all happy and trusting. even if they are just pr*cks, there is nothing you can do but to be good to and for her. That's all you can do. time will do the rest. DO NOT bad mouth her parents to her. just support her. |
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@arsed | 8 May 19 | |
@ 3mel - 8.05.19 - 12:32am you've got to play the long game. remind yourself you're not after her money, you actually like her and that's what matters. take some deep breaths and try and let it go. encourage her to stay in contact and even go see them without you. she's the one having this bad not you. she's the one needing the support from you. in the fullness of time a family event will crop up that they can't uninvite you from. it would be better to turn up as the guy they were totally wrong about and graciously tell them to forget about it and not to worry, again because it's not your family but someone you care about's family. That's exactly what I'm doing. I've told our lass to start putting more photo's on Facebook of either us smiling and enjoying time together or of some of the stuff I've moved into the house to make it look nicer. If after a few months they can't see I'm serious about her then theyll not see there daughter. They've controlled the lass all her life and it's pathetic. Couldn't care less about house or money either |
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@9362 | 8 May 19 | |
@ arsed - 8.05.19 - 09:36am That's exactly what I'm doing. I've told our lass to start putting more photo's on Facebook of either us smiling and enjoying time together or of some of the stuff I've moved into the house to make it look nicer. If after a few months they can't see I'm serious about her then theyll not see there daughter. They've controlled the lass all her life and it's pathetic. Couldn't care less about house or money either If she's just been in a 9yr relationship don't think the parents have controlled her all her life |
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