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@crail | 25 January 19 | |
That's all that Mikey requires
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@mikeymk | 25 January 19 | |
Passion makes women a bit cray.
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@trashy | 25 January 19 | |
I'm like a cold fish, if that's what you're into
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@mikeymk | 25 January 19 | |
Cold fish, eh..
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@trashy | 26 January 19 | |
Be like fu*king a salmon. You've thought about it, I can tell
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@mikeymk | 26 January 19 | |
Dinner topic, an hour ago...
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@3mel | 26 January 19 | |
@ trashy - 26.01.19 - 12:09am Be like fu*king a salmon. You've thought about it, I can tell makes a little more sense than an apple pie. |
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@ogdenz | 26 January 19 | |
Alex Salmon?
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@reallyu | 26 January 19 | |
@ tazdevil - 25.01.19 - 09:00pm Forgive me for the long post, but I need some advice about a friend of mine. So about 10 years ago (now this is where it gets long lol) I met this girl on a chat site, and we ended up becoming REALLY close friends. We talked daily, but there was always some sort of drama happening with her. I'm not gonna go into details, but she was always whining, feeling depressed, crying for attention, didn't want to be alive etc. So as an end result, I stopped communication with her and deleted her because she started to suck the life out of me. Then after a year or so, I visited her profile to check on her and noticed that she hadn't been online since our fall out. No new posts or updates, and it left me worried sick. Tried calling her, but even her number was out of service. I cried and cried because I thought she was dead. I felt guilty and responsible Recently (after 6 or 7 years) she messaged me on FB from a secretive profile. Guys, I was SO happy. I cried happy tears. Real human salt water tears. Now I'm not going to say her business that has been happening for the past years, but I feel like she hasn't changed. She is STILL a negative Nancy. I feel like she is not learning, and she keeps inflicting pain on herself by putting herself in sad situations. She has been talking really negative about life and people lately, and I'm really starting to get filled with dread every time she calls/texts. You see, all she ever seems to have going on are the bad things. Can anyone offer me any tips on how to make things a bit easier? It's sad to hear especially when u really tried all u could but to no avail...there's so much u can do and say to her really...when a woman is depressed, fed up and literally give up on herself with a stubborn mentality, it's hard to get her out of that phase cause it's mind over matter...I've been there before (like her) where I literally suck the life of my best friend. Her solution was to give me tough love; she told me how she really feels and step out...it took awhile to understand what i did to her and to myself but what she did help...it might not go for her cause everyone react differently...but I'd say give her tough love...tell her how u feel n leave her alone..atleast ur conscience is clear and u tried all u can. U can't give someone freedom, they must want it for themselves n it start within the mind. Hope it helps. |
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@ladibud | 26 January 19 | |
@ tazdevil - 25.01.19 - 09:00pm Now I understand that we all have bad days, and I really like to help/support my friends when they turn to me for comfort. But with her, it's 24/7. I try to cheer her up as much as I can, but it gets SO exhausting. Whenever I ask her how her day is, she says 'rubbish' followed by endless rants about her day/life and people. Pls help me I'm begging! tell her you are concerned as she is always negative and you want better for her, advise her to go see her doctor. whether or not she follows your advice is up to her. how you handle it is all up to you. you can't control what she does it says but you can control how and if it affects you and if you are up to it. in short, you up and go, or you shut up and take it. these are your choices as I see it and only you have control over it. it can be soul draining to be around ppl like this so make a decision and stick to it. |
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