Ok, while chatting with a bud, he made reference that it was ok for him to have Cybers*x, do s*xting with other women, watch p*rn, and basically whatever else he felt like doing. This is a married man, with children. So, of course The Queen who is a consummate romantic, who also believes in the sanctity of marriage attempts to implore this man to consider his wife.

I posed the question, How would you feel if you found out that your wife was behaving in the same manner that you are, and doing the things that you are doing? He justified his actions by saying, there is a difference from casual virtual s*x/p*rn versus actually having an affair with another person.

My rebuttal was not easy. I feel like cheating, is cheating, is cheating. There is no way to slice it any differently. It does not matter if you are using the computer, your phone, a tablet whatever. You are still not turning to your spouse to fulfill or satisfy your physical urges. I feel that it is outright, WRONG ! ! !

My other objection is, men feel that it is ok for them to behave in this manner but, it is not ok for women to do these same behaviors. Men begin to make comments like, I would leave her. I would kill her! Men, if you don't want your woman to do these things to you, don't do them to her. She is a human being also and has feelings, and emotions just like you do. I would also say this. For you men that continue to think that this is ok, be prepared. What is good for the goose is also good for the gander!

I should also forewarn you men, We women are much, much, much better at this game than you are! So WATCH OUT! ! !

Here is my final comment as a Woman that was married before. During my marriage, there was not much that my husband could not ask me for, that I would not GLADLY do for him. There are some conditions though. As long as he was loving, caring, and respecting, nurturing me, I wanted to double all that he gave out to me. His wish was my command. Nothing that I would not do for him. I wanted to make him happy! ! I wanted to be his only source of comfort. I wanted to please him. This however turns sour when men begin to invest their energies in other places.

So men, if you are doing what it takes to keep your wife happy, and meeting her needs, she will more than give you back what you need. Communication is also another big part. Men, don't be afraid to talk to your partner. Let her know what you like. New things you want to try or experiment with. It might take a while for her to understand but, if you make your request in a loving manner and take her into consideration, it won't be long before she is doing that very thing that you asked her for.

OK, it is your turn member. Let me know your take on this topic. Is it ok, to do all the Cyber activities? Do you think that these behaviors are Ok, or can still be considered as cheating? Let me know what you think. Until Next Time, Take Care! Continued Blessings! The Queen D