Could be both. The feeling is more on initial encounter like love at 1st sight. Its by choice when u keep the fire and overlook all the 'bad' stuff in ur loved one especially whn the feeling is no longer thea.

hmm.some say love is a feeling deep down in your heart..but let me ask...what happens wen this feeling fades or wen your feelings wander to another direction...not to say that love doesnt leave u feeling incredibly good all the time,or safe or secure...