Well it should begin when a couple have made the decision to take another step in heading towards marriage which is after the engagement but unfortunately or strangely, i should say, many young people who have not the smallest idea of what marriage is or is even thinking about it, is already courting unintentionally and unknowingly.... These things i believe kills relationships., well in my community for all i know.

So true fixlad 99 percent of relatioship start from courting and never ended up in marriage but common law relationshig and children ended up borning out of wedlock also brings out a lot of unwanted pregnancies and the community ended up not family oriented therfore the home is not structure the way god wanted it thats were the problem lies in our society a lot of crimes and delinquent kids