Everyone wants to have a smooth relationship. Nobody neither wants to waste time on a hardship, nor waste
their energy on a person whom you
think is not the right one for you.
Moreover, a hard and bitter
relationship is a pain in the as* and it
can be a hurdle in your self improvement and career
achievements. Here are some tips to have a smooth
relationship. If you are already on a
smooth relationship, I am sure these tips will help you to improve it. Tips to maintain a
smooth relationship
with your partner 1. Mutual respect always is a key thing
in any relationship. While you are in
private or public, make sure that both
of you act in such a way to enhance
your partners self respect. Respect
towards your partner is a great step for a smooth relationship. 2. If you cant understand any
behaviour of your partner, just initiate
a conversation and ask him/her why
he/she is behaving in such a way or
why he/she took such a decision.
Dont assume something for yourself, not only that you might be wrong, but
you will also be developing a wrong
personality of your partner in your
head which is a big hindrance for a
smooth relationship. 3. Solve problems as they arise. Do not
wait until they pack up to a big bomb
and pop up one day to pose a threat
to your smooth relationship. 4. Always plan things or take
decisions by keeping a long range
view in your mind. Do not jump into
decisions with what and how you are
at the moment. It may become a tough
ride rather than a smooth relationship if you jump to impulsive decisions. 5. Be a good listener to your partner.
Help him/her to build on skills by
giving constant back up and
encouragement to build up a smooth
relationship. After all, thats what the
word partner means, I think. 6. Give equal weight to s*x and
intimacy. One without the other is
useless and waste of time. 7. Never go to bed with a problem
unsolved. Always try to resolve things or at least bring some tenderness into
the situation before going to bed.
When you wake up the next day, you
will realize it wasnt a big deal 8. Be the first to apologize. I am sure
this would work wonders to your
bond to become a smooth
relationship. 9. Freedom is very important in any
relationship. Dependency to some
degree is good but make sure it does
not put your partner into a
boundary.Confining your partner to
limits is hazardous to your bond, only to find it later that it was baseless
stopping you both from a smooth
relationship. 10. The last and the most important
thing is to choose your partner wisely.
You know yourself and your limits.
Neither expect an ideal human being
nor choose a stupid and suffer. Every
person is different and are attracted to others for various reasons. But
common sense is a must. Smooth relationship is
not something you
cannot achieve. It is through love,commitment and
understanding along with the above
simple tips you can make your life with
your partner a smooth one.