In a time where relationships change
with financial status and people are
disinterested to remain committed,
maintaining a long term relationship is
quite a task. The issue complicates
further when the couple is involved in a long distance relationship. While the adage out of sight, out of
mind may apply to various long
distance bond, if you make an honest
effort, you can be in a long distance relationship comfortably without worrying about losing that romantic
spark. In this article, we will guide you to be
romantic and long distance
relationship in many ways. Buy a Webcam If you do not have it already, buy and
install a webcam ASAP. In this
technologically advanced age, we are
more in contact with others via
Internet than personally, a condition
which couples can easily understand. Nonetheless, if you use webcam, you
can chat and see each other anytime
and anywhere. This gives a sense of
closeness and value to your affair. Send Flowers / Gifts A woman always loves appreciation.
Believe it or not, guys love getting
pampered too. So, once in a while,
order a gift item online and send it to
his or her address. Add a sweet love note. Make him or
her feel loved, cared and cherished.
While electronic gadgets, gaming
consoles, professional wears are great
for guys, pamper your woman with
chocolates, roses, perfumes. Say Sweet Nothings! You do not need any special day and
time to complement your lover. In fact,
when you are in a long distance affair,
it is normal that communication time lessens, more importance is given to work commitments and by the time
you realize, you barely know each
other. Let not happen this to your
relationship. Be in touch with him or
her via calls and messages always. Just
call her up and say sweet nothings to
her. You do not need to be together to be
intimate. Converse over phone; talk for
long hours. Take out time to be
together. Do not compromise on
spending quality time. Listen to Your Partner Long distance will kill your relation if
you do not learn to listen to your
partner. It is paramount that you
listen, not just listen but also
understand what your partner is
telling you. Do not over-react or judge. Just listen.
He or she trusts you to share feelings
so do not squash it by being
insensitive and uncaring. When
distance is an issue, listening is one of
the ideal ways to remain close to your partner. It builds trust and enhances romance in a relationship. Schedule Meets We know this sounds professional but
it has to be done. When you are in a
long distance relationship with various
work commitments and holidays, it
really becomes difficult to meet
personally. Nevertheless, where there is a will,
there is a day. If both of you are
equally committed and interested, you
have to take out time to meet at least
once every 4-5 weeks. Cancel
everything on this day; it should be just for both of you. Switch off mobiles
and just unwind. Takeaway A real relationship with trust, respect, care, love, commitment, honesty and
passion comes rarely. If you have
found one, you need to preserve it. If both of you work for it, long
distance will never be a barrier, ever. It
will be like smooth sailing. But, yes, be
sure before going into a long distance
relation. Discuss with each other and
decide on ways to communicate and meet. Lastly, do not give up on love. It
is really scarce as it is.