Shadi widot love cant b succesful.even if u c evry relation if its btwn a father n mother,sister n brother wel every relation of da family needs a seed of lov to get grow n its lov which is da precious gift of Allah.mariage is da relation btwn 2 souls it is a promise to face evry moment of lyf wud eachoda.widot lov it cant b succesful it doesnt matter whetha ur family choose ur soulm8 or u choose it mariages nly gets succesful coz of lov.so 'arrange mariage' neva exists 4 me.