FINDING TRUE LOVE STARTS WITH
YOU
Hey everyone; hope you are feeling
awesome today!
You know love can sometimes be
hard to find, let alone maintain it.
No one was born knowing all the
tricks of keeping someone or
making them happy for the rest of
their life. Yes, you can do all kinds
of love gestures including even
getting married to them. But that
still wont exempt you from the
hard lessons about love you still
have to learn. My greatest concern
though is that, most people seem
to have lost all hope in love. They
dont believe in finding true love
anymore. I guess the fear of
exposing ourselves to the
possibility of yet another
heartbreak or love tragedy has
gripped us with chains of steel.
Personally, I dont believe that the
quest for true love is something we
should be afraid or even ashamed
of especially if you have a pretty
clearer idea of the kind of person
you are looking for. Chances are, if
you know yourself better you have
a better chance of choosing
someone who is more suitable for
you. There is no formula though.
So my recommendation is that you
take more time trying to get to
know yourself better. Date yourself
first before you date someone else.
Be your own best lover first before
seeking someone else to love you
the way you would want to be
loved. Again, always remember that
your partner can only love you as
best as you can love yourself -
expect nothing more. That could
probably explain why most of our
relationships seldom work because
most of us have not yet found true
love for our own selves. We seek
and demand it from others before
we seek and demand it from our
own selves. Here is a simple
question: How much do you love
yourself? That indirectly will
answer how much you will love
someone else. You see, you cannot
give what you don't have.
Most of us always act out of
contempt and reproach towards
ourselves. We constantly discredit
our own value and true worth, yet
we want others to show us the
kind of love we are not already
giving to our own selves. This is
why the subject of sensuality is so
close to my heart. Because it
teaches us how we can improve in
the area of truly and genuinely
loving ourselves. The more you can
discover that genuinely love for
yourself the happier you will be.
You see, it all starts with you.
So today I encourage you to start
showing more love and affection to
yourself than you usually do. Be
kinder and understanding towards
yourself. Forgive yourself every
day. Be your own best lover and
sensual friend. Learn how to live a
sensual Lifestyle, for it will
empower you to be the kind of
lover you ever dreamed you could
be.