get serious but sometimes when u try and be serious u only broke ur heart

it seems so stupid and blind 2 go from 1 partner to the next. its better to find urself 1st instead of looking 4 sum1 to fill a gap in ur life.

some of the time it is bad to mess around but it is good sometimes too cuz when u mess around u will ever get hurt.... anyone that sees this plz tell the true do u want to get hurt?

peopl r afraid of getting hurt. thats why they r selfish and dont open up

it not be in selfish it just that when people get hurt it hurts an no bady likes to feel pain

wat i meant by selfish is that peopl often want ther needs met, and place that ahead of the other person.

cuz if u look at it you did put them ahead of all other people cuz you did give the girl r boyfriend place so they feel they have a right to do what they r doin...

if u put ur own desires ahead of the other persons feelings, its like u are not appreciating them 4 who they are.

i agree u need to find urself b4 comiting 2 a series relationship. but its worth being loved than nt loved at all.

Monfriek, U R very insightful on matters of the heart, my question 4 you is, how do you know if someome has those enduring qualitiers that make 4 love everlasting@ or if they are poserz simply carried away by their selfish need to be loved?

wen the other person puts ur interests ahead of theirs, doesnt easily get angry or hold grudges, always truthful and protectiv and trustin, endures hard times, sees the bad in u, not only the good but stil loves u unconditionaly

True but what if the person only did it bcuz they wanted something in retrun.