And when do u knw that person is the special one? And nt jst anthr player?

Thats true i suppose you just have to take a chance on some1 if you really like them

I think its a question of faith, trust n honesty? Someone always has a choice on whether to cheat or not n if its a decision they really wanna make should always play fair with their partner, by talkin to them or lettin them go before anythin happens? If your relationship is blessed with honesty n trust should be able to talk thro one way or other? Can't blame someone new on past partners mistakes so not fair everyone deserves a fair chance on their own merits.

I agree daisy bt if u have been hurt a few times before u put a wall up and just maybe that sum1 special cant get in. So u let the wall down and again ur wide open to get hurt. ??? Hmmm dilemma

Buildin a self-defence wall is a natural thing to do i agree, we've all probably done it or had someone Who's wall is up.. Trick is always to be able to see over it n to be able to take bricks down if you feel comfortable n secure should never be unpenetratable. Love n friendship should always be given a chance cos you could be missin the best thing in your life that could make you wholly happy.

Short answer........ Kids don't learn to walk or ride bikes without fallin on their on gettin skint knees n hands.. Yeah it hurts but don't stop them tryin.. And when they achieve their goal its for life?

You have to learn to trust get to know the person i think if you never give that person a chance you'll never know if they could be the one