1. Infatuation is ruled by feelings, bt Love's feelings are ruled by principle. 2. Infatuation is blind, bt Love sees and examines. 3. Infatuation is in a hurry, bt Love takes time. 4. Infatuation is obsessed with externals, bt Love is concerned with internals. 5. Infatuation is childish, bt Love is mature. 6. Infatuation is a human ditch, bt Love is a divine ladder.