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Steve was an unhappy man who found himself getting angrier and angrier about his life as the years went by. Secretly, he knew he had a problem, but he wasn't about to admit it to his family.

None of you understand, and I'm sick of it. Don't look at me like that. What? You think I've got a problem? I don't need this and I don't need you.

Instead, he made them pay the price for his frustration, and he took it out on them by becoming violent with the people who were closest to him.

And then, when it was over, he would leave the house with his head hanging, because he couldn't handle the shame of how he had just treated his family. In his heart, he knew he was wrong, and so with tears burning his eyes as he drove down the highway, he whispered a hoa*se promise under his breath, Man, I'll never do that again!

And when he said it, he meant it. But just a week later, after a battling a tough day at work and riding on not enough sleep, he did it again.

I don't want spoiled kids. Kaley, put your toys away. Do it now!

He yelled at his wife and barked at the kids without provocation, and again, he found himself secretly hanging his head in shame.

And then there was Phoebe, who secretly knew that her drinking habit was becoming a problem. And one night, after having a little too much to drink, she found herself going way too far with a man she hardly knew, and when she woke up the next day, she hated herself for it.

That's it! she said, I'm never going to drink again!

And she took all the bottles in her house and poured them out in the back yard. But sure enough, a couple of weeks later, when some of the girls at work got together on pay day, she couldn't help herself. One drink led to another, and eventually, one of her friends had to call a taxi for her because she wasn't capable of driving herself.

So what actually happened to these people? Why couldn't they keep a simple promise to themselves to stop doing something they knew was destructive behavior? What is it about our human nature that gives us such terribly short memories and makes us so bad at keeping our promises?

I can't help but think about the way church attendance shot through the roof after the World Trade Center collapsed in 2001. Millions of frightened people suddenly became very determined to be on a right footing with God. Prominent ministers got excited, because it promised to become a major North American revival, but within two short months it was over. Church attendance went right back down to where it was before the terrorist attacks.

And of course, the question is why? Why did the revival only last a couple of months? Didn't the people who suddenly went back to church actually mean it?

For the most part, I'm convinced they did at least for the time being. Fear was enough of a motivator to make them very religious, but it wasn't enough to keep them that way. When the planes stopped dropping out of the sky, and life started to go back to normal, they quickly forgot all their promises and went back to the way things were.
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