My guy shd have a great sense of decency be sincere and a man of integrity...

Someone who listens and empathizes turns-me on. Someone who gives without counting the cost. Someone who treats human beings with the dignity and respect that each of us deserve. Someone with values that they will question and who is not bigoted. Someone who is not swayed by rags or riches, creed, culture or racial origin. Someone who turns me on has a beauty within. Physical beauty fades but who we are remains constant and able to be developed so that we evolve and grow. Maturing. Age alone is no indication of inner maturity. What turns me on can be a lot shallower, not just love and making love but l*st and passion. Burning for each other. Sweating to make it in the cool of the night. Giving pleasure turns me on. It is part me who I am.