I know someone that panics when someone or something seems to perfect and then disappears. She is desperately looking for a way to handle it but her progress seems to be blocked by not knowing how bad its already screwed her life up. I know im not going to hear back but its the act and intense purpose that im going to get any peace from what i can see so i have to try. Any advice you can give would be gratefully recieved and i know if anyone does, you understand her problem lol.