Well it sounds like to me both of y'all have feelings..but also sounds like both of y'all are scared to scare each other away...u may need to be more aggressive instead of so passive...she probably needs more reasurrance ....most women need this...I don't care how hard up a woman says she is...anyways try talking to her more...a relasionship won't work just by talking about feelings of love...it needs more of a friendship and communication to work...trust me...I was quiet too about stuff ...and I been there done that...so well I hope u are able to work this out