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Sheila,a friend I met on prodigits,asked me if she was a virgin,i asked if she had ever had s*x with any one,and she answered 'no,but once when i was making out with my ex,things got a little heated and his hands started roaming down south,and though no actual penetration took place,i broke my hymen and i feel like i lost my virginity',so then i told her she was still a virgin by my standards.She didnt agree.Anyway,she asked me to post this question and get answers from my group.Help out a sister,tell her what you all think abt her situation. |
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@nikan | 14 May 08 |
hey.Sheila if u have broken yo!hymen doesn't mean u r ignoble.U didn't have s*x rite?Just be careful next time huni.U aint a virgin no more bt feel proud.Things get out of hand sometymes.Jewlz u agree with me rite?
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@penigma | 14 May 08 |
Avn s*x does not necessarily entail penetration though true to da defination actual penetration by da male organ is da ultimate act of intercourse bt being in an intimate situation wea one fondles da private parts tht is s*x oral in a way da fact tht the thingy was broken is of nt much consequence she ad an intimate encounter tht c*mulated to tis nd by all standards she is nt a virgin s*x is nt only a physical thing it transcends tis it both on a physical nd emotional level she might av made love nd tht qualifies her for avin lost her virginity its as simple as tht
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@jewlz26 | 14 May 08 |
Wow,i disagree,i think sheila is still a virgin.Many women break their hymens thru physical activities such as sports among others,the truth is,s*x is clearly defined as the act of penetration of the male organ into the female one.sheila was not penetrated,but her hymen broke,this does not follow the definition for s*x,it is therefore incorrect to term virginity as having a hymen.By all measures and limits,sheila is a virgin.
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@nikan | 15 May 08 |
what u say is rite bt her hymen is broken huni.I think peningma is rite.
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@penigma | 15 May 08 |
Jewelz thing bout it wot is oral s*x wots da defination in ur opinion? If ur gal ad tis wit out breakin her thingy would she qualify as a virgin if she broke it would she still be one wot if she was penetrated bt for some reason she never broke her hymen would she stil b a virgin wot is ur defination of a virgin? Answer these question nd they would be food 4thought wot do u think nikan?
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@jewlz26 | 15 May 08 |
Guys,i dont think i was clear enuf,no oral s*x took place,the boy just used his finger to fondle her,i doubt she would her virginity over that.Anyway,Sheila was really glad you're helping,even tho you're confirming her worst fears,LOL!
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@jewlz26 | 15 May 08 |
I know how important chastity iz 2 sum women,personally,my virginity is very important to me,and i intend 2 keep it,but i wouldnt judge Sheila harshly,clearly,she made a mistake,and she obviously regrets it,so ya'll shldnt be so tough on her.
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@nikan | 15 May 08 |
penigma,am wid u on that.Her hymen is broken so she ain't a virgin bt a beautie.What do u say penigma?
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@carbonic | 15 May 08 |
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@penigma | 15 May 08 |
Hey guys we should be objective here we shouldn make sheila feel bad nd be traumatized for life by tis incident. Virgin is just a label we put on our selves in tis day nd age being a virgin can put pressures tht can break us. All these are constructs of our own making nt da concretes da reality of it all is tht we create our own labels as we perceive them nt wot da society says these r all stereotypes she needs to find happiness in da moment nt leave da past or future
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@jewlz26 | 17 May 08 |
I agree Penigma,and with carbonic too,wotz done is done,ts in the past,its yesterday.But i still she's a vajo,LOL!
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@2060 | 18 May 08 |
Deffinately she is no longer a virgin . but she knows 2 wel she did not have a penetration .a broken hymen writes off the word virgin in describing herself ![]() |
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@sichezz | 22 May 08 |
You guyz u cnt b serious hw do u prv wetha she z stl a virgin,wa u thea wen it hpnd.Bt i guess jewlz z rght!
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@ace60 | 2 August 08 |
I hve scratched ma head ova ths n th one thng i cn tel u 4 sure is tht virginity is about ur dignity so if u hve lst it thn sory babie u hve lst both! I don undastand how u get tht far n u don give it up ! ?
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@nikan | 9 August 08 |
Hey guyz we shouldn't go 2 an extent of commenting until we judge ths chile. Its tru maintaining virginity is ABILITY bt ths chile is innocent. I rest my case yo honour(jewlz)
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@mwenyeji | 15 August 08 |
Sheila is still a virgin, since she didnt experience the act itself but the 100 Q here is how do we defn s*x. That defn shd b changd considering the same s*x r/shps. Come 2 thk of it, sheila, biologicaly u aint a virgin no mo. But thea is stil secondary virginity, u can practice that n b @ peace wit ua mind.
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@jewlz26 | 10 September 08 |
Dyu guys knw,that it is scientifically proven that sum galz r born wit already broken or no hymens at all?Or that majority of all-proactive galz break they're hymens really early thru physical exertion?Or that a heavy fall can break your hymen?Well...Now you know.Virginity z not dfind by a piece of flesh covering your v*gina(thats the oxford dictionary description for a hymen).It is ua overall being and state of mind,sheila,u r so still a virgin,jus make sure you stay that way
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@mwenyeji | 11 October 08 |
Sheila ev1 is telln u 2 stay a V, if u consider changn ua mind buzz me.0710899880 oh...n these r 4 u hun ![]() |
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