I see that my country's and ppl's impression is being spoiled in minds of other country ppls over the internet, but what acctual position at present is that india's mature ppls mostly dont know the internet surfing and because india got this internet facility in only just a decade of time, india is new on internet world and mostly internet chating is used by only immature youngsters of india and other country ppls are weighing india by such immature youngsters only and so as a result they hv weird kinda impression about india in their minds and thinking and guessings.

Also by internet surfing and chating, so far i came to a conclusion that, europeon and western country ppls are more self centered compared to asian and african country ppls. ( self centered does not mean selfish, plz hv that clear@ readers here)

Your topic sheds light on what some people call self discovery. You took your time to study and discover all you said and i totally agree with your perceptions but with the exceptions of your chosen word construction. You sound very convinced and sure. Press on with your investigative sojourn, you're on the right path.

Hahaha 411kay, see i made a mistake and what i need to put in this topic i put it at my other topic, so plz read some posts of todays in other topic and reply in this topic, hope u understood what i said by this post, because both were my topic i mixed up by mistake and posted some posts concerned to this topic in my that topic:) .Ty:)

In concern to my 2 post i wrote by mistake in my othe topic i am proceeding furthur here that..... Its nt only the advance country's ppl's behaviour so, but india's ppl's behaviour also the same as they be advanced in india's mega cities like delhi bombay calcutta chennai etc, these advanced indians in india behaves totaly different than those indians who are resideing in lil bit smaller cities to lower most villages, so its nt europians or africans or americans or etc ppls that they are different but even in my country india when ppls get lil bit advanced than others than their typical kinda indian behaviour gets automatically changed and they tend to be self centered and unconcerned unnecessarily to others.

As for example, if i am haveing a new car and it never needs to be pushed by 4 or 5 ppls to start up than i wud never need to give them lift upto the next station, but where if its a old car than there is no gurantee that it will start up everytime by its selfstarter and i will hv to keep gud relations with the ppls of the village or town so that whereif i need ppl's help to push my car than i can ask them to push it and help, but if i be self centered and do not care for strangers or ppls whom i know, than if i do not give them lift than they also gonna laugh and refrain to push my car and help me, so it depends on my new car or old car that wether i can afford to be self centered or not. So its ppls position that makes them what and how they are....

Its a misunderstanding and misperception in many ppls mind and mentality that they take being self centered as their self esteem, and polite and concerning and careing for others kinda ppls as lack of self esteem. So as i said above when indian or countries like india's ppls when cause of their life and living conditions tend to be concerning to otherr kinda ppls then they get misundertood as haveing lack of self esteem, but in matter of fact its nt so atall:)

My native place in this state of gujarat is saurashtra province but i am resideing in gujarat province, language tone and attitude is totaly different though its nt much far as 150 to 250 kilometers or say 3 to 5 hours of run, my native place is situated in draught prown zone, and where im resideing is greenary zone so lil bit rich zone than my native area, same difference of ppls behaviour seen in this two zone as im complaneing in my above posts for advanced ppls behaviour and unadvanced ppls behavious in indias mega cities and europian western country ppls behaviour and unadvanced or developing country ppls behaviour

So its nt the ppls of countries but the cir tances of the zone and provice and hardship of life which makes them moulded in perticular type as they are, takeing an example of ppls sited in bus behaves independant and unconcerned to eachother when everything is going okay but as soon as bus gets off road and breakdown in deserted area then they all will start mingling and concerning and knowing to eachothers, so difficulty and easyness decides their personal behaviour whether its (its my life) type? Or (its our life) type? .Ppls.

I been in neigbourhood with a guy and he was nice frank and friendly before he been to usa's florida for 5 to 7 years, after he came back than now he started being selfcenterd and behaves as if executive of florida's space station!!! , acctualy i am afraid if he knows the full name of usa!!! , he been there as a cook and nt even lil bit educated upto the primary level, though he now behaves as a verymuch proud self centered etc etc kinda person, i feel as if he lost myself's respects and value in his ownself !!! , might be he thinking his such behaviour as proud for ownself and self esteem for ownself, what ever i said as above bout this guy is called as judgeing someone in western countries and they dont like judgeing someone, so i bag pardone for that after writing this just for those western frnds who feels this my jugdgeing for someone as sumthing wrong doing of mine:)

Neither being over concerning or be pushy to anyone, nor being disconcerning or selfcentered unnecessarily, thats what is called well balanced behaviour with ppls over net or in real life.

Giveing one more example of guy whose family has very good relations with my family and me as we are neighbours from many years, but this guy was setteled frm many years in india's mega city called bombay and he also a victim of selfcenteredness and proudness because of living high life (acctualy by education and earning he is nt hardly one third of my compitation) , what happened that he has to come back home in my neigbourhood to live with his parents and now resideing here, what happened once that his mother got her leg broken and fractured while climbing in public transport vehical, she was brought to home by some strangers at home in my neighbour, now the guy needed some two three guys like me and a vehical also to take his wounded mother to the hospital.....

.......And the guy dont hv any frnds or guts to manage her mother to take her upto hospital at his own, and because he never even gave a smile to me or a hi at me as a frnd he was hazitateing to call me for help, so his sister called my mother to call myself by a phone to come and help, i got the msg and i came home as i was out in the city, me and my assistant in my buisness then started lifting up the guy's mother but as she was screaming with pain we 2 were nt enough to lift her to get her into the car, and this guy keeping his hands into his pockets, instead of helping us to lift his own mother up, was instructing us to lift her like this and that!!, so....

......So my assistant frnd just wishpering said to me that why this guy is nt helping us? And replied him then in a jokeing way whisperingly that he is boss , and the guy's sister was also so much disturbed by he brother's such behaviour and she shouted at her brother that you nonsence, help them, and give ur hand to lift the mother ,

I did it as my duty then for more than 5 times in that case, but all the family members of that family requested me to bother about their home and house looking to the behaviour of that guy who is of their family, so what i want to say is that one's metality of being proud for ownself, considering ownself as something special kind out of generality, its my life type living attitude, etc type of ppls many times prove to be impractical ppls in practical life, i dont want to compare all with that guy but i got to know such many in a site were mostly western culture ruled and there were such my country ppls also whose behaviour i found and felt somewhat similar kind as i gave example of two guys as above.

India is versetile country and every state of it is as different as india and other country!!! , language and customary culture etc gets changed as one moves towards one state to other state, and even in the same state and same village and same neighbour customary according to castes and surnames get changed and living and life style also is totaly different even if two ppls are living within a 10 feet of distance neighbour!!! , so one can not say that he knowing india cent percent, even i dont know fully how is it in all states all castes all languages all customaries etc etc

Its been only 60 years of independant country india, so in many matters india and its ppls are far backward compared to advanced countries, but in asia continent india is on the top sharing bout equal status with china.

Its only delhi bombay madras and calcutta guys and gals and few more frm lit bit one step down than those above city's guys and gals that are useing and seen over the internet, and rest of approximately 60 percent of india dont know even the name of internet chating thing, still even educated ppls are asking me that what are you doing on ur cell phone? and they cant believe that im chating with foreigners!! , they still keep on asking me that how is it possible?

If i go three decades back in 80's , there was nt a single scooter or a two wheeler in my school, e1 used to come to school on bicycle and no one knew to drive a two wheelr auto bike etc!!

In 80's there was only one girl amongst thousand of school boys and gals who own a scooter and knew to how to drive it, and we all to gather just look at her being impressed by her that she knows!! Driving and riding 2 wheeler auto!!